widowed almost 4 years ago,have 4 children and 6 grandchildren...like to keep busy as I figure I stay active "old age" will have a harder time catching up with me...I am very honest and outspoken and dont beleive in lying ....just not a good way to start a friendship or to continue one either........worked in the medical field for a very long time and now I help people consolidate loans....very much a people person....looking for someone who wants to be a friend first and then hopefully be willing to put up with this onrey redhead possibly on a long term basis...I will be the first to admit most of the men I have seen in the past couple of years are younger than me,as I have been blessed and have been told over and over I do not look my age.....other than that if you have any questions,feel free to ask