lets see , how to explain who u r .......................hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wow this is a hard 1 . my family comes first ...... meaning my children. i lost my girl last year and now i do everything for my son. he will be first to anyone. in life god gives you crosses to bare.......... and only crosses he knows you can handle . the cross he gave me changed my life totally, 1st to tell the 1 you love .... i love u every day. we are gifted to be on this earth and to treasure it every minute. what im looking for has to be down to earth , willing to be open and true. MuST love kids because i spend most of my spare time with my son. someone who is not a push over yet knows when to admit they r wrong. wants to enjoy each others company but needs time for themself.