To me, romance means emotion and desire, the feel of a connection when together. Spur of the moment and planned time together. Holding hands when walking together and enjoying each others company. Who am I? I am not a stud, I am a typical guy who has children, twin daughters. One lives with me and her sister lives with her mother. I have a long career with a well established insurance company. And, I like to spend time at home, some weekends head out to a nightclub to see the local bands, maybe even dance a little. Who do I want? She is the person who would be reaching for my hand when walking as I am reaching for hers. I should also tell you that I really like text messaging hello notes.