I never been truly in love; never met the right one, although thought I did once--in & out of love. I admit I was naive and just settled. I'm attractive, not overweight, and Italian/German. People say I look somewhat like Julia Roberts, Celine Dion, & Shannen Doherty. I'm content with myself, a positive person, and make the best of any situation. I'm basically a happy person, but I can be happier with the right one. You should be too so you can positively, participate and share yourself in a relationship. Please, no babies which means NO: tantrums, spitefulness, anger problems, uptightness, bitterness towards women, or numerous insecurities. I just prefer a pleasant, simple, drama free life (so no drama kings); a relationship is supposed to enhance your life not create chaos. I'm not high maintenance or a material girl. I have a daughter whom lives out of my home and goes to college. I'm not seeking someone perfect, but rather perfect for me. That said, I'm only interested in someone with hopefully most of "my" qualities, which means I have the following qualities too: SEEKING A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP ONLY/THE RIGHT ONE TO SHARE THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH, MUST BE A GOOD/DECENT & POSITIVE/OPTIMISTIC PERSON, NO GAMES, NOT MARRIED/NOT ENGAGED/NOT SEEING ANYONE/NOT LIVING WITH ANYONE YOU'VE BEEN WITH OR FEMALE FRIENDS, FAITHFUL/NO EX'S ENGAGED IN YOUR LIFE/MONOGAMOUS (a one-on-one relationship), VALUES/MORALS/TRADITONAL, RESPECTFUL (treat one as you want to be treated like I do), HONEST/TRUSTWORTHY, UPFRONT, GREAT COMMUNICATION SKILLS, HAVE COMMON SENSE, NOT NEEDY OR SMOTHERING (you want a mate, but do not need one), INDEPENDENT, KIND/EASY-GOING, NOT COLD, NOT ARROGANT, OPEN-MINDED/NOT STUBBORN, A LOGICAL THINKER, AFFECTIONATE, CARING, A GIVER, A SENSE OF HUMOR, FUN, not sarcastic, NOT OVERLY JEALOUS, NOT A CONTROL FREAK, NO MENTAL PROBLEMS (like bipolar, schizophrenic, A.D.D., crazy, paranoia, etc.), not broke or in debt, AGES 41-50, ATTRACTIVE (above average), CAUCASIAN, NOT UNDER/OVERWEIGHT or oversized muscles, 5'8" to 6' (if you are 5'8" no more than 165 lbs. and 6' no more than 185 lbs. so just add 5 lbs. an inch after 5'8" Lol), NOT BALD or HALF BALD (nice hair), prefer no gray or white hair, kept groomed (no beard or mustache), no excessive body hair, NICE SMILE/TEETH, NON SMOKER, NON DRUG USER, NON ALCOHOLIC, NO DISEASES, NON SNORER (no sleeping disorder), NOT SWEAT TOO MUCH (hyperhidrosis disorder), GREAT IN BED (finish up), NO SEXUAL PROBLEMS, have STAMINA (sexually too), HEALTHY, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF (inside & out), good hygiene, NO PETS, CLEAN (your body, home, car), somewhat ORGANIZED, capable of cleaning up after yourself, cooking for yourself, doing your laundry, and your grocery shopping. Sorry I'm not into being my partner's Mom or Maid--I'm seeking a mate not a child or job. I know this is much, but if you're not upfront with what you want you will not obtain the right one, and I don't need to waste anymore time with Mr. Wrong. : )