This is the difficult part, I am kind of laid back sort of guy who enjoys a lot of different things. I rarely get angry, life is too short. I hope to discover new things about you as you discover who I am. It should be a lot of fun. What do I miss since being widowed, all kinds of things - a gentle touch, skinnydipping, a loving partner, intimacy, watching movies together, wow sooo much more. I miss bad habits as well as good. i would rathur have loved and had a broken heart than to have rejected someone due to a bad habit I dont like, and in the end while away in my lonliness. To add a bit more june-09 I've been smoke free for four months.