Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. I spent the first 43 years of my life in the midwest. For the last 28+ years I've lived in Hawaii. I taught vocal and choral music in public and private schools before moving to the middle of the Pacific Ocean. Much of my time in Hawaii I have worked as a travel agent. I retired about 6 years ago and keep myself busy by volunteering as a tutor for Hawaii Literacy, volunteering to help out at Hawaii Public Radio whenever needed and by singing in the Honolulu Symphony Chorus. Ah, there seems to be a theme - I love to sing. That is what my degrees are in. I have also directed church choirs forever. In 1987 I started the Honolulu Men's Chorus - a gay chorus.

I am a gay man (antique and weather warn to be sure) who is in search of a friend. I see myself as a gentle person and I'm looking for another gentle person as a soul-mate. I've never been an athletic person - not even as a spectator. However, I love to watch baseball and soccer. But really, I'm more at the artsy-fartsy end of the spectrum. I've already talked about singing - wherever I live, I have to be able to get to a choir. I know that finding another artsy guy may be a long shot - but I hope my Mr. Right will enjoy to the occasional concert (of the classical music variety.)

At the outset, I have to tell you that I don't do anal sex. And I'm not into pain. Other than these restrictions I'm pretty easily satisfied. Of my very favorite "indoor sports" include LOTS of touching and feeling. I think nothing that I know of in this world is as wonderful as a man's body in bed with me. Kissing, hugging, snuggling, cuddling are the biggies that come to mind just now. One of the things that is at the top of my list is showering with my partner. You know - to help get to those hard-to-reach areas. These things being said, I need to tell you that for a change, I'm in the majority of men my age; Yup, I have an enlarged prostate. In late October 2007 I had an operation to see whether some of what I've lost can be found. Yes, I can get hard. Just how lond George (my name for my penis - and I don't remember where I got the name George) will remain hard is anyone's guess; he does have a mind of his own. I am all right with this - I can't do anything about it. I'm basically a people pleaser. I'm far more interested in satisfying you than I am about me. George likes attention - but he is easily satisfied.

I love to laugh and be with people who enjoy life. I think, if you really think about it, you may be my Mr. Right, and I may be yours. I look forward to hearing from you.
Bob