I have not dated much because I had been partying and surfing and just hadn't had the desire to open myself up.Things change, I don't party much any more but still surf all the time. Most of my family has moved away to better beaches so I'm looking for someone to spend the time I have now. I would like a woman who takes care of herself , as I now do.for myself. Even starting to eat healthier although I can use some help with this. I own my own place and have held the same job for the last 10 years..... I am disease free, Quit the drugs,Quit the drinking ,Quit the smoking and will pass a background check!! What more can you ask for? jus kidn. I love kids,I usually get in trouble right along side them, but I haven't been responsible enough in the past to have my own or was I very responsible in not having any. I've become very predictive and a bit anal with the years and I'm looking to put a stop to that! I just keep adding to this weekly as I think of things so please stay with me. I am considered a Naval combat veteran with an honorable discharge.I am pretty cynical of this on line dating thing ,at the least it is pretty interesting but then I am always cynical ,funny cynical though. I usually have to know a girl for a while before I will go out with her.