Not that anyone is going to actually read this- but- Im not looking anymore-I do not wish to find anyone to date. I'm just here to chat with my friends and to meet more friends- yep- FRIENDS ONLY!!! I don't want to talk about sex-I don't want to know that older women turn you on, I don't want to know how good you are in bed-Listen closely! I DON'T CARE!!!!!! Im truly not interested in dating someone I could've given birth to! I am not a twisted or deviant individual- I am pretty normal - I moved from Somerville, NJ to Vero Beach, Florida in 1990 and then to Ohio in December 2008 where I presently am, and Im getting used to the difference in the climate and I'm happy and quite content. Its all good- but.....since this profile took a long time to put together-im going to leave it for your reading pleasure- ready?.... here it is--I am not really looking for the whole Fairy Tale thing but I would really like to have the "Happily Ever After"--That being said--I am a fun loving,actually pretty silly sometimes, quick witted, intelligent single woman who enjoys dancing, movies, museums, going to the zoo, a good book, walks in the woods or on the beach or just kicking back with good friends. i like thrift shops and flea markets. They are tons of fun, and i love to find a great bargain!! I have been single for a bit, and i have not dated much. I don't like all the games involved in the whole dating scene. Im not good at them, and they bore me. I am by no means "perfect", and i don't expect nor do I want you to be "perfect" either. I just want the man that is "perfect" for me. I have been told i am quite stubborn and bull-headed- perhaps i am. Is that good or bad? i don't have any idea, and im not really all that concerned about it. I'm sure you can make your own decision regarding that. I am a free spirit, i am pretty spontaneous, and i have a great imagination. I am also pretty independent. It's not that I really "need" a man around all the time, its just that I really "want" to have one around. I work hard and I have alot of responsibility. Im not a high maintenance woman. Im most comfortable in jeans and a polo shirt, no makeup, hair in a ponytail and being barefoot. I am very honest- ok- maybe brutally honest but I would never intentionally hurt anyone's feelings- but if I do-i'll apologize and expect you to embrace it and LET IT GO!!! I do expect complete honesty from my partner as well. Don't worry- I'm not going to ask you if my butt looks big in a pair of pants. I can dress myself and won't need your input- thank you- LOL. I don't mind if you are opinionated as long as your opinion is based on fact and not ignorance. Im not a big fan of ignorance- there is too much information out there- just read and- Oh Yeah!! here's a novel idea- LISTEN!! lol. I am loyal and faithful and incredibly trustworthy- probably to a fault but thats just how I'm wired. Everything i do I give my whole heart and soul. When i love- I love completely. I love snuggling, cuddling and I love to kiss and be kissed. The first breath and last breath don't matter- it's all the ones that are in between. I think that being held close is just the best feeling ever! Im sure most of you would agree with that! I would like to think that I am a keeper!! I am the woman you bring home to meet the family. I am the woman of someone's dreams... I Hope!!!! I am looking for that one special relationship- the one I can grow old with, that "Forever Love." I want to fall in Love!!! I want to get married! To be with that one very special man. The man who holds my heart. The man who I am madly, passionately, deeply and completely in love with, and he feels the same about me. That is my dream. There is a huge difference between being "alone" and being "lonely" and unfortunately- I'm both of those things. However, I don't want a "needy" man. I don't require many phone calls everyday. If Im secure in our relationship, you can do your own thing and I'll do mine. I just have to know that you are there when I need you. I'm pretty shy in person until I get to know you well. I'm a sensitive woman but I try not to be. I'm sort of reserved and Im pretty old-fashioned. I might even be a little neurotic and emotional, but you would have to take the time to figure that out for yourself. If you have unusual "Fetishes"- more power to you- but I'm probably not the woman for you. I tend to protect my heart and feelings fiercely! I do not believe in casual sex. I do not like one night stands. They are just a huge waste of time and effort for me. I don't enjoy them at all. Don't get me wrong- sex is wonderful when it is experienced in a loving, committed, long-term relationship, and trust me i really enjoy it- alot! but, I think a one-night stand shows a lack of respect for both yourself and the person you were with.

I believe in everlasting love. I am not a serial dater. I am a relationship girl. Relationships are 100/100 not 50/50 in my opinion, and I am willing to give any relationship my all. I am a one man woman and I expect you to be a one woman man. Monogamy, love, trust, respect and loyalty are the cornerstones for a long lasting, loving relationship, in my opinion, and if you betray my trust, there is no going back- you will be cut off at the knees!!! The internet is a hard place to start and continue a relationship- there are way too many temptations. If I am to find and keep a great relationship- it might start on the internet but I will not stay on the net- and I won't want him to either. The decision will have to be made as to what will be tolerated and what will work for the both of us- I demand complete fidelity!!!!! I have a great sense of humor and I love to laugh, and frankly, I crack myself up!! I believe that a man with a good sense of humor is very sexy and without laughter there can be no love. A great relationship has to have chemistry, that heat, and the passion that two people who are destined to be together, have. I also believe that love does not understand distance- if it is meant to be, then distance is not a factor, and if it is supposed to happen, it will. You can't help who you love or why. Things happen the way they are meant to. The dating scene is very intimidating, so lets just get to know each other well first, establish a friendship and see what develops. Whats the worst thing that can happen? I can be the best friend you ever had or the best relationship you have ever been in. I'm willing to take that chance if you are. Just be honest and straightforward. I have to believe that there is the man for me out there somewhere. This really is only as difficult as you choose to make it. Love is a risk, a challenge- the question I must ask now is- Is there anyone out there willing to risk it and take on that challenge?

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