YAYE FINALLY MOVED INTO MY OWN PLACE!! A FEW THINGS MAY HAVE CHANGED A BIT ....BUT I AM STILL ME!!

(I am who I am. I'm done with having drama in my life. I know now what it is that I want in life.)

I enjoy reading: you can never get enough information about anything and everything. It is very important to constantly read something/anything to keep the mind/brain stimulated. I enjoy sewing: when I have the time to do so, I enjoy making outfits/dresses for my kids. I also enjoy passing time on-line whether it's playing on-line timed games,chatting or checking e-mails. But what I LOVE most of all is being a mother to my four beautiful kids.

My goal right now is to do everything in my power to get the rest of my family in Missouri down here in Texas. Plain and simple. If you can not understand the situation/circumstances as to the relationship I have with my kids' father and their step mother..too bad. Not many ex's can say they still get along with each other, even for the sake of their child/children. But I and they do!

I am who I am and nothing else. I can be sweet yet vicious all at the same time. I'm not crazy, I'm just like any other woman out there....don't like to be done wrong. I have been through many rough roads in life; I have learned from every one of them. I am not paranoid; I have simply learned to "see" the signs.

I may not be the brightest crayon in the box at times, but I am quite educated and smart enough to know better. I received my AAS in Criminal Justice from the State of Missouri in 2006. I had plans to do a lot with that degree, but one thing after another came up. Things happen the way that they do for a reason. We may not know it at the time, but when things work out....that's when we come to realize that we must be grateful for what we have.

I enjoy all sorts of music. What I don't like is the kind that you can't understand and/or hear clearly. I'm not big on speaking/listening/reading Spanish anything. I don't speak it well, I don't read it well, and I certainly don't understand it well. Sorry, that's just me.

I enjoy all genres of movies except....zombie movies. That old black and white Night of The Living Dead did it for me.

I moved here to Texas a year and a half ago, my kids' dad family in Missouri was all passing away due to illnesses. We figured I'd come down, make fort then send for him, his girlfriend and our two other kids. All three of us adults get along pretty well. I am presently staying with family along with two of my four kids. I have my 13 year old son and my baby girl 4years old. My intentions was to get down here to my family and set fort, but things seem to be taking longer than expected. I still have a house in Missouri that a month ago, I could have returned to, but my kids' dad, the girlfriend and our two kids just moved into it. I couldn't put their dad and my kids out; of course. I am more determined now than ever to try to get things situated down here. I have applied for a few jobs, had one interview and testing, just haven't been called in yet. Life can be such a waiting game.

I have been single for a little around 4 years, I haven't been out to drink/party in a year already. I tend to my kids' needs first. I am not one to go out and party every weekend, leaving my kids to be raised by the sitter like many young girls and mothers out there in this day and age. My kids come before any man in my life. I made some mistakes and lost my way for a bit and have promised my kids and myself that it won't happen again.

It would be nice to meet a man ready to settle down, get married and try to live a long happy life with his soul mate. I don't jump to assume you are like all the others, but if it presents itself, I will let you know that I know you are up to no good. Past relationships have made me more aware and alert to see things for what they really are. I don't jump at or assume everyone is up to no good, I do give people the opportunity to show who they honestly are.

It is not that it is difficult for me to find a man, it's about finding the right man to be in my life. I don't go out at all except for doctor appointments and grocery shopping. Being that I live with family, it IS hard to date as I don't have a sitter and hate being a burden on others more than I have been. If I do go and do things, I do them while my kids are at school and I'm back home before they get home. I've learned that men want to go out late at night with the expectation of dinner and sex....I'm not about that. If a man can't take me out during the day with no expectations then he's not the one. As long as it has been for me; the next intimate encounter will be meaningful and with the right person. If they can't understand that then they've got to go.