I live in West Omaha with 4 cats. I recently lost my wife. I have a great family "all grown" 2 boys and a daughter. I am very sure of myself in life and am not looking for a person to raise me. My pet peeve is a dirty house. I take pride in myself, my profession, my house, my yard and my kids maybe not in that order. LOL My kids would kill me if they even thought they were listed last. I have loved and lost and now am reflecting on what love really is. I am thinking honor, respect, dignity, and the ability to be honest with each other regardless of what it is we need to be honest about. That is what I have lost and will not settle for anything less. I am not in a hurry to be a husband but absolutely need a best friend.