I enjoy the finer things in life. I loathe women who dont behave like a lady should. I love women who take pride in their appearance, even it's just a trip to the shopping mall. It's all too common to see women these days who get married and just let themselves go.

I like a women who is in control and not just some puppy dog who does whatever she is told. Independence is something I look for in a woman. However, the characters portrayed in Sex and the City, take that to the extreme and makes you wonder. In real life I see many a lady in their 30's who is single and lonely. I truly beleive that alot of women look up the Carrie and her mates as role models, only to find that at the end of the day, the single seen isnt all it's cracked up to be.

You have to ask yourself this question. What's the better feeling... partying every weekend, meeting new people, maybe a one night stand thrown in just for good measure? or Waiting for that door to open and being so in love that you feel tremors inside your body when you and your lover look at each other.

My most memorable experience: A freezng cold drizzly Sydney sunday morning. It's early and the CD player is still playing some sort of chillout music from the night before - must have hit the repeat button. Opening my eyes and looking at this sleeping beauty beside me. That long brown hair spread out across the pillow and her sleeping in one of my T-Shirts.

Now thats what lif is all about.