If you are as serious about your search, as I am about mine, You'll know exactly what to ask. Now that you are done reading all the ads here and you have chosen to come back to this one and ask yourself is this real? Well quite honestly it is and you have no reason to look any further if you are serious about your search for happiness. I’ll be very direct and to the point, honest and open to you as I feel we both deserve it. You have placed an ad and received replies from every nut job and crazy you could have imagined, or you were flooded with emails from guys who weren’t real.You have kids and it makes things just a bit more complicated. You cant find the one you want and you're tired of the casual date nightmares, you want the last man in you life, to be there for you, understand you, hear what you are saying and not just listening to you. You want to hear that voice on your voice mail saying” I’m thinking of you” you want to know your in a relationship your friends will envy. You want to get along as a couple that people will try to duplicate, you want to have that security you’ll only find in his arms. You want that man who is open to showing you all of his feelings happy or sad, you want that man who just has to look at you and you’ll not only know but feel that you are a very special woman in his heart. Yes I’m for real and ready to commit, are you? No picture and you will be considered not to be serious about your search and kindly deleted. Tell me a bit about yourself, I know this is a bit much to ask of any woman, but I am very serious about finding “Her” as you should be about finding “Him”. Thank you for taking the time to read my post.