I h'ave been single about three and a half years and have dated off and on. I am not into the bar scene, my girlfriends and I will go out occasionally, but would love to have someone to spend time with. I am not looking for someone to move in with tommorow, but would love to take the time to get to know someone and if over time something builds from that great, but if not hopefully I will have a great friend. I have an adoreable little boy that is the joy of my life, not everyone can deal with that, and that's ok. I am not looking for a dad for him, he has one. I love good movies, walks on the beach or in a park, like reading (spend a lot of time browsing at Barnes and Noble), like to walk and run and absolutely love music....and if you don't have a sense of humor then you will not like me....I do not smoke and do not care to be around it....that is plain ole me