6ft 3 in 225 lbs, Self-sufficent, employed , empty-nested ,homeowner. turned 47 on 7/22/07 ! My children are grown and on their own . I`m at a happy station in life and would love to meet ONE person for a harmonious and mutually balanced relationship. I`m not the flashy , keep up with the neighbors type . Comfortable dressed to the nines and out on the town but enjoy quiet times at home as well. I`ve been told and would like to belive that I`m Fun , Funny , Clearthinking, Honest, Genuine , Earthy,Child + Animal loving , Music nut that has a bit of a Muscle Car and Motorcycle problem ! ( modest also ! ) No armchair athelete or couch potato here ! But tend to be a bit of a homebody during the workweek. I belive that Laughter, Honesty, Mutual Respect , Communication and Understanding are important to build the foundation of a worthwhile relationship. We would see each other as equals and compliment not complicate each others strengths and weaknesses. Compromise is easy because we both want to do for each other. We would take the time to learn what we want to do and share with each other as well as give each other the space we need to be who we really are. I`m not shallow, but please respond with a photo. Chemistry takes on many forms and is important. I don`t have a "type" . Attractive is as unique as personality. The true measure of a person is seldom seen on the outside . But if we need to sneek up on each other to kiss hello than that may become a problem ! Don`t mean to be cruel, I`m a slender build but not a finatic. I have not been attracted to very heavyset ladies in the past, sorry , just being honest. I have dated petite to large frame, tall and short before..Blonde , brunette ,redhead ect . Personality is so much more important than "eye candy" . I understand that there has to be mutual attraction. Inner beauty grows over time and will out - shine outer beauty any time ! ( say that ten X`s fast ! ) I want the whole package and so should you ! I won`t "settle for" . No drama please ! After all , What grade are we in now ? Best of luck to all, Thanks for stopping .....bye !