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tlkwthme "Good Guy"
40 year old man from Cleveland, Ohio      Looking for woman for dating Last seen over a month ago

About tlkwthme

I"m a good, honest, loyal guy. I like to laugh and smile and sometimes sing. I have a 13 year old daughter who is the most beautiful and gentle person in the world. I'm trustworthy and honest, and loyal. I realize that falling for someone who's not right for you can cause a persons heart to suffer tremendously when everything all falls apart because of it. I believe sometimes we jump into a relationship, and fall for people that, in some ways, seem totally wrong for us, or a complete mis match; but because their desire and attention towards us feeds our egos, we become prematurely locked in a need to constantly refill the nourishment that their attention, or desire provides. Some people become so attached to the attention that you get from the new love that comes early in a relationship, that they continually seek after it to receive it in any shape or form, even if they have to go to an outside source, or partner so they can continue to feed themselves more of what they crave, or lack instead of working things out with their current partner to get the proper nourishment that their heart desires. In actuality their is always someone or something out there better than what we have. Just like there is always someone better at something than us. But does that mean we should drop what we have to go after more? Especially if we have already established a foundation of love for the person we already have? I think that this is a matter of knowing what you want, to know if you're satisfied with who you're with. Or who you've found. Something only a person with a firmly rooted foundation of belief can possess. Whether it be christian, peagan, jew, gentile, islam, or buddhist. I think that we can have so many prefrences that we expect people to be perfect. Not realizing that the amount of preferences that we have adds up to be only what a god can give, because only god is that perfect to begin with. I think that we don't get some of our expectations filled because we fail to open the door for that person to be the person we expect or want them to be for us by pressuring or punishing them for not being that person to begin with. I believe premature relationships can cause so many problems till where we turn into monsters toward each other that hide us from seeing the good person we are inside from that person we're with. By doing so we shut the door for our expectations by making them now more afraid that they will fail before they can even try. Then when the relationship fails we never even know if they were the right one or not. If we don't realize this early, we just move to the next person, and do it all over again. That's why I wanna take things slow and start out by establishing a friendship. Iv'e learned from trial and error that the bond of a relationship is stronger if we lead forward with friendship. A friend, usually, is there before and after the relationship is over, and they tend to carry more clout and authority with a person than an ordinary lover would in a relationship. I value peace above all else. I work hard at getting along and I'm not afraid of commitment as long as it's with the right one. I'm not a person that will sacrifice someones heart just because I want more than what they can give. Especially if they're trying. Or giving their all. I will do anything I can to make a relationship last and make it better. I have confidence, but I'm not vain. I take pride in never cheating on a woman ever in my life. My main goal in life is to find complete peace of mind and share it with someone. I just want a good girl. Who's actually nice. The girl who doesn't ask for much is a girl I would move mountains for. I'll lasso the moon for someone if I thought it would make them happy
Profession: Home remoleling, Contractor, Machinist

Physical Appearance

Height
5' 11"
Hair color
Bald
Body type
Average
Ethnicity
Black / African descent

Lifestyle

Marital Status
Never married
Have Children?
Yes, they live away from home
Smokes?
No
Religion
Christian - Other
Want Children?
No answer
Drinks?
Occasionally

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