First of all let me say that I refuse to be the male that badgers women with emails. I will not harass, or pressure you into anything... so if that's your fetish or need from a man then move on cause I'm not your guy. I actually find it important to like the women I invite into my life. Please read my profile and If my situation is something that works for you, drop me a note... I'm very approachable and a pretty nice guy.. ... I will respond. Well more about me, I have spent the last 16 years working in area of youth services helping at risk youth. During this time have wore so many hats that they are too numerous to list. From challenge course/team building facilitation, mentoring/advocacy, to working in residential care.
Ok the less conventional side of me now.... Ahhhh Hmmmm ...well I'm in an open relationship with the Mrs and I'm looking for a friend with benefits situation. You must be honest and discreet! Not because I am cheating or embarrassed but because we have children. We want our child to make up their own minds about how they define marriage. If you are married then your Mr would need to be ok with.... I have no desire to be your dark secret or target practice either. Honesty is a must! There should be mutual attraction and the Mrs would be fully aware of the situation and fully supports me having others in my life.... she also plays. If you would like to confirm that with her that could be arranged. I am a sensual person by nature and enjoy people. I'm a dad of four boys.
True that chemistry and physical attraction are important but kindness, conversation, and friendship goes a long way too. I can appreciate a sensitive caring person and handle myself the same. I'm not looking for a notch in my belt but for friendship and then see where that leads! If you are wanting to meet for sex before actually getting to know each other then go ahead and click on to the next profile... that's not how I'm wired or want to conduct myself! If you are just looking for a friend then that's cool too... I could use a good coffee buddy. .. no convenient store coffee though, I do have some rules... lol.
I enjoy working out and staying healthy and I'm attracted to those who do the same. Cuddling, kissing are awesome and sure we can increase that list as well... ;- ) If you would like to talk please send a note. I would love to sit down and chat with ya over coffee if you have interest.