It's difficult to know what draws people to one another and why. What we seek in a profile is often different from what actually creates a connection in real life. Many of us have life experiences that define who we are and possess distinct uniqueness that make us special. It's the blending of these uniqueness between two people that makes a relationship successful. Online dating is no cake walk and as deligently as we may try, it may just earn us a couple of gold stars for our efforts. But at least we would have lived that dream, for who knows? Good things often happen when we least expect them to.