There must be some 40-50 yo men out there who desire a BBW who's working on losing at least a few pounds. A man who takes the lead in a relationship - both in the bedroom and out. A man who's looking for a real relationship, not just a "friend with benefits" or a one-nighter. A man who's not afraid to provide a little discipline followed by some hot, sweaty time together.

I'm interested in meeting someone who is willing to get to know each other before jumping in to bed. But I promise, once there, you'll find me eager to please and explore together. I want a man who treats me like a lady in public and something else in private.

Please NO MARRIED OR OTHERWISE ATTACHED MEN! Please be a non-smoker. If you're seeking NSA or FWB, keep looking! I never did share very well.

I enjoy movies, fishing, camping, road trips, hockey, a cold beer, cooking and spending time with friends. I have a dog who is spoiled but well-behaved. I'm a scorpio, part middle-eastern (I don't look it) and a GRITS (Girl Raised In The South) - so I'm pretty outspoken and sassy most of the time.