I am seeking a committed, long term relationship/boyfriend, who I will be compatible with physically, intellectually and emotionally. I am not here looking for a "sex partner" or to hook up with any married/attached men or just to be Friends with Benefits.... So, all those do not need to reply to my profile at all. No pot smokers or daily drinkers (once in a while - OK). I am a Yankee - originally from Upstate (small town in country - not a city girl), New York...so I have "Yankee" ways. I might do better with another "Northerner" or transplant who would understand me better and who will be able to accept me for who I am....I cuss (not all the time) and I smoke so if these are issues for you then we will not be a good match. I am also agnostic. Was raised roman catholic but I do not follow any religion as my beliefs are not in alignment with religion of any denomination. I am a quiet,shy,clean, d/d free (I have my papers to prove it), neat, fairly attractive female who seeks the same in a man for compatible life partner. I live a calm, peaceful, stressfree lifestyle and would like to keep it that way. Not looking to be changed. I am comfortable with who/what I am. Have my own two bedroom home. I am attracted to physically fit men who are low key, calm personality, outdoors/handyman types who take charge and know how to treat his woman. Not into heavy, big or out of shape men. You do not have to be wealthy but you must have your own income of some type. Friends first to see where it goes. I have to like and trust you before I give you my heart and my committment to you. You must have a license, your own reliable vehicle, and no criminal history. No drug or alcohol problems wanted. I drink very rarely. Sincere inquiries only with a recent (in last 30 days) picture of you for me to see what you look like now. I like very attractive, unique looks, personality in a man. Long hair on a man is also OK with me if hair is kept neat, clean and you take pride in your physical appearance. I am very down to earth, low maintenance, frugal, and would like to find someone who has these same qualities.