Well,, To start I am NOT looking for anything casual or serial dating..I am looking for a life partner, my last first kiss..I am 42 I have 4 grown kids, ages 25,24,22 and 20 and also have 5 grand babies, I was born in New Orleans and grew up in Gulfport MS..I like mostly country music and sometimes a lil classic country..I have been single off and on for a while I just cant seem to find "the one" I love passion, romance, affection..a text just to say good morning or good night babe..or in the middle of the day just to say I'm thinking bout you..BTW I am a Texter I love to text, hate to talk on the phone...don't know y..just always have...lol so if that's a problem we prob wouldn't work.. Now I use to be a BIG girl and still struggle with weight issues so if your looking for someone with a tight body you should def keep looking...LOL I got married for the first time when I was 15 yrs old..was together 14 yrs..most of em for the kids..we had 4 beautiful kids tog..after that I got married again right away and was tog 10 years..been divorced from him 2 years in march..both my ex husbands treated me bad and cheated on me repeatedly so I'm a lil scared getting back out there..LOL But I don't blame all men for their mistakes..I know there's still a few good ones left..I just need one..LOL My Idea of a perfect night would be thunderstorm going on outside, stack of good movies, bowl of popcorn, a bottle of wine, you, me, on the couch under a blanket.....I want to add that I am usually attracted to men with facial hair of some kind..