just looking for some company and a friend then see where it might go..i dont play games and i dont need any more drama in my life..i have 3 teenage girls that live at home so my house is always in chaos and probably needs dusted and vacuumed but there are more important things to worry about...i dont do a lot of things outside home and work so its tough to meet someone..i dont drink or go to bars..i dont have a problem with someone that does occasionally but i lived with an alcoholic for too long and i wont go there again..i work for what i have and i expect the same in a partner..i dont sweat the small stuff, life is short enough..