LIFE/LOVE ALERT: Dreams are what gives us life and without them we are like a dead man walking. Loving and being loved by the right person can put the wind in your dreams; loving the wrong one can suck the very breath out of them. I can only hope I've got some wind coming my way on this site, because I still dream of shared, requited love.

The best relationships always start with mutual respect, a willing heart and a well-worn "builder's tool." I'm on this site to meet some-one who wants a peaceful, loving, relationship. I don't play with hearts or minds and come without the need for manipulation or drama.

If I believed in flings, I simply wouldn't be available. Instead, I am a woman of value who already understands your value as a man. I'm just not an "ok-for-now-gal," and I won't treat you like an "ok-for-now-guy," as we're both more worthy than that kind of subtle selfishness.

If you are a mature man of character and love God, I'll be open to what love looks like in you. I do, however, know what love acts like; ICorinthians 13:4-8. That still "stands" in my book. Also, as no one race, culture or society has a handle on true love, kindness, wisdom, etc.; I'm open, if you are.

I have the love of music in my blood...even played piano in grade school; sadly not much since. I can sing without making dogs compete or babies cry or another's eyes bulge and jaw suddenly drop. As a child, I daydreamed I was like Stevie Wonder. (ok, ok, more recently, too) Very, very good at playing the air guitar and drums. I'm also given to fits of bliss around a man who can cook for me with...or without the apron. (Ditto for you) Smile

Seeking a Christian man who loves God and wants and needs only one Christian woman who, also, loves God. You have the charisma of character; a mature youthfulness with a kind, gracious sense of humor/humility. You seek the same from me.

Looking to encourage, not discourage; to build up, not tear down; to laugh with, not at; to share nurture and grow a wonderful brand of fulfillment with someone. So, if you've had it all and still don't have "it," consider sharing your thoughts.