I am artistic, creative, whimsical, humorous, clever, and hedonistic. I am a singer/songwriter, dog trainer, and dilletante. I am a single mom of a teenage boy and have 3 dogs and one cat. I live in lovely Fallbrook, CA, the avocado capital of the Universe. (Hope you like guacamole!) I love fine dining, sushi, wine, healthy debate, movies, down time, parties, surprises, and anything purple, fuzzy or sparkly. I have a nose piercing, a lip piercing and a tattoo. No, you can't see it until I know you better!
I am the office and facilities manager for my non-denominational church, I perform in the band on Sundays, and I write music and train dogs on the side.
I am a bit of a couch potato on my down time (I'm a serious movie buff), so if you are the kind of guy who is always in the gym or outdoors, I am probably not a good match for you. However, if you like the occasional trip to the forest, beach, or desert, I am down with that. I need someone to encourage me to go be in nature more often. I forget how much it feeds my soul until I get there.
With regard to health/fitness/weight, I am very comfortable with my "few extra pounds", but I would be equally thrilled if I woke up skinny tomorrow. I would like to improve my habits, and I am always working on my personal growth inside and out. I am a work in progress, just like you.
I try to keep my house comfortable and welcoming, but I am not a neat freak by any stretch, so if you are, again, probably not a good match. I am very irreverent and outspoken and don't much care about other peoples' opinions, but I care a lot about other peoples' feelings. The two most important rules in my house and my life are Kindness and Respect. I am the kind of person who craves company and affection, and I really would like to find a partner to share in all of the ups, downs and day to days of life. I am looking for a companion who is intelligent, kind, respectful, spiritual, creative, generous, sexy, funny, and emotionally available. I am open to chatting online and exchanging emails as long as you have a photo. I would love to hear your ideas for some fun things to do together. My very favorite thing to do is go hear live music whether at a club, concert or festival. I also really enjoy sex. (There's that outspoken thing I mentioned)....anyway, I am just saying I am not one of those women that only wants it once a month or whatever. A frequent, interesting, tender, loving, mutually satisfying sex life is crucial to a healthy, happy relationship. It's not the only thing, but it's undeniably important. That having been said, I would of course want to get to know a potential partner pretty well before becoming sexually involved, so if you are looking for a girl who puts out on the first date, keep looking....Well, that may be TMI, but it's out there now. Hoping to hear from my true companion, maybe it's you.....