My name is Chris and I've been divorced for over 20 years. As time ticks onward, I am trying to find that one guy to spend whatever time we have left on this earth with. I am looking to date first. I am not looking to be a one night only. I would prefer you'd be from NJ or the surrounding tristate areas. Long distance is out, I don't have the time nor the means to have one.
I have 2 kids both over the age of 25, My youngest is 28 is married and lives in Idaho. My oldest who just turned 33 has been diagnosed with a rare form of Muscular Dystrophy so he currently lives with me.
I have a sarcastic type of sense of humor. It's what gets me through this thing we call life. I was told I walk or march to a beat of a different drummer, I would say yes I do what I want when I want and have fun along the way.
I'm a very active gal. I like to workout 5 days a week , swim, fish and I dance. I take lyrical, , tap and jazz classes twice a week.
I have tattoos and like to add to them every once in a while.
I like flea markets and garage sales, trips to nowhere, and some wheres. I travel alot. Every 2 years I hit an exotic island ( I plan to see them all before I leave this earth).
I love my pets, I do have quite a few of them. Cats especially. If you are allergic, pass me by cause I am a responsible pet owner and will not get rid of them for anyone.
I love the beach, and I go often during the year. Nothing like the change of seasons down the shore or even up in the Poconos. I love salt water fishing too. I love going into the city to see shows, or just to walk around.
I love riding on the back of motorcycles, ( not a requirement but nice if you have one) or on the back of a horse.

What kind of man am I looking for?
I like guys with long hair, to me its what makes a man sexy in my eyes. Bikers, rocker type or Renaissance men work too That being said, that's what I'm looking for. Someone who is my equal, and is also independent, I am mom to 2 kids I don't want to be your mom lol
I don't date men of color or guys under the age of 40 or bald guys. Like i mention i like long haired guys only.
I don't like guys with Bad attitudes, or have been known to do Physical violence, I don't care if you drink but no slobbering drunks. Guys that Instant message me or email me for cyber sex...just move on if that's your intention.

If you don't have a picture, please don't waste my time by writing to me unless you attach one. After all you can see me, it's only fair I see you

I am seriously looking for a date that will lead to a long term relationship. I don't want to write endless emails with no intentions of ever meeting. I don't want cheating men either or ones that don't take the time to read my ad.
Please if you don't have any pictures on your profile don't bother writing, I wont answer, if I cant see what you look like I'm not wasting my time.