I can be pretty cool as long as you are straight up with what you are looking for. I really do not want to play the little mind games that get a person hurting. I can be pretty sensitive at times and consider myself overall a good person..though not necessarily an angel in the bedroom. I am not looking for a committment or relationship at this time in the sense that a first date or meeting means we are together. I say this only because I do not even know what a healthy relationship is supposed to be like, though I do have some ideas, its just that I tend to meet the wrong type of women sometimes. I seem to always give of myself without anything in return..and it hurts afterwards. I suppose if the ideal woman was out there, she would be laid back and patient with me..not opposed to good conversation and not caught up with what everyone else thinks. Looks and personality are cool, though not always the norm. Sexy and cool is good enough for me. That doesnt mean I am overly superfiscial at all...sexiness curtails alot of things. Perhaps we shall get a chance to meet.. Pleasentries to you