MsVandy "A lady in the street but..."
36 year old woman from San Jose, California      Looking for man for dating

About MsVandy

Interests:
If you know what comes next then you're a step ahead of the rest...besides, its it always the quiet ones who cease to amaze??

I'm an introvert who is forced to be outgoing 80% of the time. When I am overwhelmed I write. As if you couldn't tell...here's piece I wrote for a man who didn't deserve it.

Title: Where's the Sense in Waiting

He says: Have patience.
She asks: Why?

Patience being...
The capacity to endure hardship,
difficulty, or inconvenience...
without complaint.

The willingness or ability to tolerate delay.

Why should I quietly suffer a willingness to tolerate delay?

What will I have to show for it?

Persistant thoughts...
Never wavering wonders...
Curiosities that are inches away from killing me...?!

Where is the joy in that?

What are we doing?
What are we waiting for?

Divination?

Resting in expection
We could miss out on today...
patiently waiting
To see what happens, whenever.

Whenever could be tomorrow.
Tomorrow feels like forever.

Forever is never promised so what happens if we wait?

Unwavering He says: Have Patience.
Ever Moving She asks: Why?

Outside of being a poetic soul bounded by social service policies and procedures...

I am a football/lacrosse mom and a social worker. I have two sons who live with me. I have a pretty crazy hectic life but I can and have made time for the people I consider special in my life. And that's what I'm looking for...that special someone to make time for.

To that...I would like to meet someone who is down for the occasional to regular Friday night dinner, a movie, and casual (grown folks) conversation. I'm looking for a LTR but based on mutual respect and friendship so I'm hoping that special someone is kind, understanding, and has a cool sense of humor. He is patient, sports loving (specifically football), physically active, child friendly, and financially self-sufficient. Lastly being goal oriented and driven is a plus but not in the workaholic no time for anyone or anything fun sort of way.

So, now, if you can handle with that, then you can probably handle me.

Hit me up if you're up to the challenge.

MV

Physical Appearance

Height
5' 5"
Hair color
Black
Body type
Athletic
Ethnicity
Black / African descent

Lifestyle

Marital Status
Never married
Have Children?
Yes, they live at home
Smokes?
No
Religion
Non-religious
Want Children?
Undecided/open
Drinks?
Occasionally

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