Am totally blind, but I don't let that get in my way when it comes to enjoying my life and the people in it. Wanting to go into audiobook narration or doing voiceovers for documentaries or animation. The headline on this thing pretty much states the qualities that I'm looking for in a girl. I know people consider introversion, gentleness, being a sweetheart, and having a tender heart signs of weakness, but the world needs them just as much as we need outgoing folks. We can't all have the same personality. It'd be like painting everything in a portrait the same color. God knows I need someone with the qualities listed above. They're not weaknesses to me. I'd love to be with someone who's happy with who she is and emotionally mature as well. Someone who knows who she is and who is content with that. A nurturer, if that's not too much to ask. It'd be great if she loved to cuddle too! Someone who doesn't use alot of sarcasm at all and who would never belittle their partner. Trust me, it doesn't feel great at all. Someone who's not a party goer and who enjoys quiet evenings in or spending time with close friends. Someone who's not interested in being a social butterfly, in other words. Someone who enjoys hanging around in bookstores or libraries, or taking long walks where we can actually hear ourselves think as we converse. Don't get me wrong, I love going to movies, shopping, going out to eat and all that stuff. Heck, I don't get to do that enough! Yeah, I like shopping around in bookstores and other places too. Sad, huh? I'm the type of guy who uses words to encourage others and hates arguments. You'll never hear me cutting a girl down. I'm not a bossy person and don't really feel comfortable around bossy people. A guy and a girl should be equals in a relationship. It's not about competition. It's about teamwork. It's about each being selfless and giving one another their all. That way, you spend time strengthening each other rather than focussing on self. And no, looks don't matter to me.
I'm not looking for any one night stands. I want something that lasts. I'd like for whoever I date to be comfortable with being herself around me. Someone who doesn't pretend to be someone she's not when we first start dating and then show her true colors later on, in other words. Haven't had the best of luck with meeting genuine people. And I'd never ask something from someone that I wouldn't be willing to do myself either. If you're kind, nurturing, gentle, etc to me, I'll give it right back to you in return, and that's a promise. I try to be this way with everyone but there are people who use these qualities to their advantage so I've learned to be careful. Hence all the maybes I clicked on on mutual match feature. Please don't think me too picky for listing all the qualities in a woman that attract me. I'm not a demanding person. I just wanna date and eventually marry someone with these qualities. Maybe to let a person like this know that there is still a monumental need for all these traits or qualities or whatever you wanna call them. Some girls, guys too for that matter, make the mistake of throwing these by the wayside. They give up the best parts of themselves for things that never last such as popularity. So if you're gentle, soft spoken, or introverted by nature, etc, don't give any of this stuff up for anyone or anything. You've got just as much to offer as the outgoing crowd. This is a fact.
I'm not one of those guys who dates a girl for sex. I've never done any of that stuff, actually. There's much more to a relationship than that. Besides, I don't want my first time to be with just anyone. Like it or not, that's where I stand.
I was born blind so I'm not one of those who goes moping around about it. It's as natural to me as breatheing. No questions about it offend me at all. I live as normal a life as anyone else. The only things I can't do for you is drive your car, cut your hair, or perform brain surgery. Just don't tell me I can't do something I know I can do, and we're good. But i do know my limits. I'm not prideful. I'm more of a mediator and a diplomat unless someone I love is being belittled or picked on. I'm pretty calm and laid back. Seriously, if you have any questions whatsoever, just ask. I don't mind.
As for when I'll find that special someone... Well, I'm not one of those who likes to date just because all my friends are doing it. I know that'll happen when it happens. I believe with all my heart that I was made for marriage and family in spite of what some may think. I don't necessarily view singleness as a bad thing. It gives me time to better myself. So that I may be the best friend, husband, and lover any woman could want. I don't mind learning patience either. In spite of what this silly thing might say,"Man looking for relationship now!," or something similar-- can't figure out how to edit these headlines, I'd love to date and eventually marry, but I will let it happen when it happens. I'm in no particular hurry. But don't get me wrong, I dream of that every night and think on it every day. I don't want to date someone just for the sake of having someone. I want to date someone because I truly and deeply love someone. And whoever she is, she's worth waiting for. Doesn't matter if I marry when I'm 40, I'll wait as long as I have to for my other half. For the right person. Ok, stick a fork in me. I'm done.