Hi There ! I'm a DWM, 58, 235, gray hair, blue eyes. Once upon a time the hair was red. (Ladies, if you REALLY want to limit yourselves to slender, athletic or fit I'm not your guy - and you're probably missing some very nice men.) I was married once, for 20 years. I have one wonderful daughter and a beautiful 9 year old granddaughter who live in Tennessee, my original home before becoming a Floridian 15 years ago. I own a home in Cape Coral and work in law enforcement, am a division supervisor, but I am not a cop. My hobbies are scuba diving, ham radio, weather, (look up stewartweather on the internet), my aquarium, non-lethal home improvement projects and, surprise, surprise, computers. I quit smoking 25 years ago and drink socially but a six pack lasts me for months. Sorry, allergic to dogs. Like 'em, just can't stay around them for long without turning on the nose and eyes. I enjoy movies, dining, theater from time to time, travelling when I can, especially cruises, holding hands, snuggling in front of the TV and, uh, sex. (Hmmm, male, likes sex. What are the odds?) I am looking for a l-o-n-g term relationship, eventually marriage, with someone who is honest, open minded, reliable and looking for a long term committed relationship, and eventually marriage, as well. Hope that's you! And just for reading this far, here's a little something extra ...

A married couple in their early 60s was celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary in a quiet, romantic little restaurant. Suddenly, a tiny yet beautiful fairy appeared on their table.

She said, 'For being such an exemplary married couple and for being loving to each other for all this time, I will grant you each a wish.'

The wife answered, 'Oh, I want to travel around the world with my darling husband.' The fairy waved her magic wand and poof! 2 tickets for the Queen Mary II appeared in her hands.

The husband thought for a moment: 'Well, this is all very romantic, but an opportunity like this will never come again. I'm sorry my love, but my wish is to have a wife 30 years younger than me.'

The wife, and the fairy were deeply disappointed, but a wish is a wish. So the fairy waved her magic wand and poof! The husband became 92 years old.

The moral of this story: Men who are ungrateful jerks should remember fairies are female!