Gotta start out with the hard part: I am NOT looking for a baby daddy -- they have a great father who is my ex-husband, and I myself am educated and career-minded. However, whoever wants to share a life with me has to accept, and in time have the capacity to love, my five children as well. This is simply not negotiable. They are 12, 11, 8, 5 and 2. I currently do not have them for this year, (until June 2010), but that is not average. My ex-husband and I have a normal arrangement of me having them for the school year, and him for the summer. I am more than willing to meet a man who has his own children -- that would be hypocritical if not. However, I cannot have any more of my own, so if you want your own and don't have any yet, I'm not your woman.

I believe in being completely honest.

Besides that, my perfect match is a man who wants a life with a good woman and a family, not just a playtoy. A nice guy (sometimes they DON'T finish last), with a pretty smile and soulful eyes who can hold a conversation and has an opinion on things besides pop culture and sports. Able to think for himself, debate issues, enjoy indie culture, and overall has a mind and opinion of his own. I'm tired of trying to be someone I'm not for another person, and I'm looking for someone who's like me, and with those things we're not alike, still accepting. Nobody who's extremely religious, please, as we'd most likely end up hating each-other; I have VERY strong opinions on religion. I like geeky, quirky, interesting guys who use their brains. Literature, computers, camping, philosophy, history... these are the things that make me.

Tell me, who said this? "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to reform (or pause and reflect)."