I'm honest, kind, caring, intelligent, healthy, energetic, and looking for a meaningful relationship with this kind of guy. My health is very important to me; I eat sensibly and exercise regularly.

I’ve tried many activities and have enjoyed most of them and am willing to try anything once. It is fun to just wake up in the morning and head for the beach or to plan out a project. Even when I’m by myself, I can think of something to laugh about as I have many good memories of my childhood, my daughters and grandchildren growing up, and of the joy of being with my deceased husband for over 40 years. My adorable dog, Dollie, is fun to be with but our conversations are rather one-sided.

The man I am hoping to meet knows that he is special, because he cares about the feelings of others and is not on a trip to satisfy his ego. He is intelligent and interesting to be with, is optimistic, and is willing to commit to our relationship. He wants to do things with and for me, he is relatively healthy, and likes having me do things for and with him. If he has a sport or hobby that I don't know how to participate in, he has the patience to try to teach me. We can laugh and have fun together. We can communicate, meet, and find out if we have that spark that grows.

I am looking for a long term loving relationship but not marriage, because I would be required to forfeit pension and health insurance benefits that my deceased husband worked so hard for.

This site identifies my zip as San Marcos Lake but I live in the city of San Marcos.