I am a 45 year old Southen Afican American male who enjoys playing basketball, spending time with my kids (I have 2 wonderful boys who are my life and world). I know exactly how to treat that special woman like a lady. I enjoy listening to romantic ballads, jazz and r & b. I don't need someone who judges a book by its cover. I am not going to bore you so I will let you be curious so you will want to have something to think about.