I just got divorced after 4 yrs of marriage 2 a man i didnt see for 3 of those yrs. I have 2 beautiful girls. No man will ever come before them so if you are someone who needs the spotlight on them, bye. I work 2 jobs and occasionally another on the side. Im very independant and dont want or need a man 2 take care of me. I want 2 find my happily ever after but dont count on it. So for now we can be friends, maybe hang out, and see where it goes.