Sometimes erudite, charming, thoughtfull& considerate. Not to much though, can't ruin a carefully nurtured reputation. Since this blurb, I have posted a photo, and though the photo is of me,and it is the latest one taken of me, it was taken at my elder daughters wedding, April 1998. I am guilty of misleading advertising,much sorrow perhaps.I don't see where it says Kaiapoi, California. Although The profile page says this is so, I reside in Dannevirke, in NZ's North Island