{"id":1866,"date":"2019-04-11T10:49:06","date_gmt":"2019-04-11T10:49:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mingle2.com\/?p=1866"},"modified":"2019-06-27T07:11:47","modified_gmt":"2019-06-27T07:11:47","slug":"love-does-not-wait","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/love-does-not-wait\/","title":{"rendered":"LOVE DOES NOT WAIT!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>By L.a.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1867\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1867\" style=\"width: 782px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mingle2.com\/view\/love-does-not-wait\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-1867 size-full\" title=\"Life is too short to wait for love\" src=\"https:\/\/b.mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/love-hurt.jpg\" alt=\"f you care about someone let them know, now. Because tomorrow is never promised.\" width=\"782\" height=\"826\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1867\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Life is too short to wait for a second<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">An American man shows his online love story with a Vietnamese girl with full of regret!<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>This is the love story of Justin, from the USA.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Justin met a beautiful Vietnamese girl on a dating site. They seemed very harmonious. Justin liked her so much, but he was afraid that she didn&#8217;t like him, so he ignored his feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After talking online for some time, they decided to meet each other offline for the first time. They both didn&#8217;t know that it was their first and also their last meeting in life. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spend some seconds to read Justin\u2019s sad love story and feel his message. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI want to take a moment to talk about missed opportunities.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In mid-November of last year, I started talking online with a very beautiful Vietnamese girl. We spoke about music, and movies, and books, and her desire to one day move back to Sydney. Our conversation moved at exactly the same pace. She was intelligent and kind, and witty and funny&#8230;and did I mention beautiful?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now anyone that knows me, knows that I lose interest in women (and people in general) very quickly if I feel that we are not existing on the same plane&#8230; That was not the case with this girl. I knew immediately that I liked her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So much so, that I did&#8230;nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I ignored these feelings that I had because deep down I felt that if she met me in person that somehow she wouldn\u2019t like the real \u201cJustin\u201d outside of my online persona.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She was too perfect, and I am not that lucky.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We would causally talk online from time to time, but never making real plans.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">January 21st I mustered up the courage and asked her if she wanted to meet. She agreed and 2 days later we met for coffee. I arrived 15mins late and she was waiting, patiently, casually drinking a beer. It was at 3 pm. I thought this was hilarious and awesome. We were excited to finally meet and it was obvious. We sat and talked for hours with a sort of nervous excitement.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The whole time I was wearing my sunglasses, not to block the sunlight but instead to conceal my feelings. She asked to see my eyes and I jokingly said, \u201clater\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We made plans to hang out later that night but decided to wait&#8230; We didn\u2019t want to ruin the moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A few days later I went to China to play a few shows. When I came back she was leaving to the North for the Tet Holiday. When she came back I left again. Then she left again. Etc, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now even though we didn\u2019t see each other physically during this time we would always watch each other\u2019s IG stories, FB stories, etc. I would always look to see who watched my stories, just to see if she had. And she did.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then one day she stopped watching.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I sent her a few FB messages and WhatsApp messages, but she didn\u2019t respond. I called, but she didn\u2019t answer. I thought that maybe she had met someone else or wasn\u2019t interested anymore. This made me sad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After not hearing from her for a few weeks I made the decision that I would contact her somehow and let her know how I really felt. No games, no bullshit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, unfortunately, that chance will never come, because yesterday I found that she passed away in a motorbike crash 3 weeks ago&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can\u2019t help but feel that if I would have told her that maybe this could have been avoided.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you care about someone let them know, now. Because tomorrow is never promised\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I first heard about their story, I was obsessed, I always wondered what if he took off his sunglasses? What if they went for a date later that night? What if\u2026..<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today, I share this story to you &#8211; our Mingle2 users and to those who read this blog. I hope that you can avoid this mistake. If you have a crush on someone, let make a real date, let them know how much you love them because life is too short to wait a second. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As Justin\u2019s message, \u201cif you care about someone let them know, now. Because tomorrow is never promised\u201d. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By L.a. An American man shows his online love story with a Vietnamese girl with full of regret! This is the love story of Justin, from the USA. Justin met a beautiful Vietnamese girl on a dating site. They seemed very harmonious. Justin liked her so much, but he was afraid that she didn&#8217;t like him, so he ignored his feeling. After talking online for some time, they decided to meet each other offline for the first time. They both didn&#8217;t know that it was their first and also their last meeting in life. Spend some seconds to read Justin\u2019s sad love story and feel his message. \u201cI want to take a moment to talk about missed opportunities. In mid-November of last year, I started talking online with a very beautiful Vietnamese girl. We spoke about music, and movies, and books, and her desire to one day move back to Sydney. Our conversation moved at exactly the same pace. She was intelligent and kind, and witty and funny&#8230;and did I mention beautiful? 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