{"id":3746,"date":"2020-05-08T03:00:41","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T03:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/?p=3746"},"modified":"2021-01-15T08:42:50","modified_gmt":"2021-01-15T08:42:50","slug":"dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating &#038; Relationships: Expectations vs Reality"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_11 counter-hierarchy counter-decimal ez-toc-grey\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\"><i class=\"ez-toc-glyphicon ez-toc-icon-toggle\"><\/i><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class=\"ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1\"><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#His\/Her_whole_world_must_revolve_around_me\" title=\"His\/Her whole world must revolve around me\">His\/Her whole world must revolve around me<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#Relationships_will_make_you_happy\" title=\"Relationships will make you happy\">Relationships will make you happy<\/a><ul class=\"ez-toc-list-level-3\"><li class=\"ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#Expectation\" title=\"Expectation:\">Expectation:<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#Reality\" title=\"Reality:\">Reality:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#You_can_change_for_the_one_you_love\" title=\"You can change for the one you love\">You can change for the one you love<\/a><ul class=\"ez-toc-list-level-3\"><li class=\"ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#Expectation-2\" title=\"Expectation: \">Expectation: <\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#Reality-2\" title=\"Reality:\">Reality:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#It_should_be_an_epic_romantic_love_story\" title=\"It should be an epic romantic love story\">It should be an epic romantic love story<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#He\/She_should_know_how_I_am_feeling\" title=\"He\/She should know how I am feeling \">He\/She should know how I am feeling <\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#We_must_always_have_an_agreement_in_everything\" title=\"We must always have an agreement in everything\">We must always have an agreement in everything<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/dating-relationships-expectations-vs-reality\/#My_partner_will_love_my_friends_and_family_because_they_love_me\" title=\"My partner will love my friends and family because they love me\">My partner will love my friends and family because they love me<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Most of us have this crazy idea about relationships which we get from Hollywood movies. We picture a perfect romantic relationship. Subconsciously, we build certain expectations in our minds about dating. Well, it turns out that life is a lot more different in reality. Unfortunately, some of us refuse to let go of this idealistic love that only exists in fantasies. Therefore, we find that we can\u2019t get it right in our relationships. It just keeps going wrong over and over again like a merry-go-round. Well, it is time you reevaluate some of your beliefs and expectations of dating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3748\" src=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"Dating\/relationships: Expectations vs Reality\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1669\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-1024x667.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-768x501.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-1536x1001.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-2048x1335.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-614x400.jpg 614w, https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-455x297.jpg 455w, https:\/\/mingle2.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jorge-gardner-Q4pjMYQtXzE-unsplash-1-267x174.jpg 267w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"His\/Her_whole_world_must_revolve_around_me\"><\/span><strong><span class=\"tm7\">His\/Her whole world must revolve around me<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Well, this is how Hollywood portrays it. You may expect that he places you at the center of your partner&#8217;s universe. However, in reality, it doesn\u2019t always turn out that way. Both of you each had a life, associations, jobs, relationships, and family before you met. Although, you are very important to each other, it is okay to live out other aspects of your lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Relationships_will_make_you_happy\"><\/span><strong><span class=\"tm7\">Relationships will make you happy<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Expectation\"><\/span><span class=\"tm6\">Expectation:<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">I feel bored and incomplete. There is definitely something missing from my life. I am not really satisfied with how things are going in my life. Oh I know, what I need is love, someone to cherish me, and bring happiness to my life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Reality\"><\/span><span class=\"tm6\">Reality:<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">For a relationship to last, both parties have to be happy independently. You must be full of love and happiness within yourself first. You don\u2019t get happiness in relationships, rather you share happiness. This way, you choose to date someone simply because you want to, not as a necessity. Relying on your partner for fulfillment puts the other person in a difficult position. It also leads you to an unhealthy level of dependency. Often times, when it doesn\u2019t work out, the outcome is resentment and disappointment.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"You_can_change_for_the_one_you_love\"><\/span><strong><span class=\"tm7\">You can change for the one you love<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Expectation-2\"><\/span><span class=\"tm6\">Expectation: <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">If there is love, he won\u2019t mind changing in order to adapt to the image in my mind. She has to drop all her flaws to adapt to my desires. The point of it all is that we both must do all it takes to make it work, even at the expense of our dreams.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Reality-2\"><\/span><span class=\"tm6\">Reality:<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Yes, relationships demand commitment, and a lot of effort to make work. But it should not get to the point of having to be someone else just to please your partner. Else<a id=\"aGoBack\"><\/a> chances are, it is not a relationship in which you will be happy. Though sometimes, compromises are necessary to get off a difficult time. However, it doesn\u2019t have to be one party making sacrifices all the time. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Further, if you are always the one having to make some big changes for the good of your relationship, without appropriate gratitude and reciprocation from the other party, then I guess it\u2019s time you stop listening to your heart and start listening to your head.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"It_should_be_an_epic_romantic_love_story\"><\/span><strong><span class=\"tm7\">It should be an epic romantic love story<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">We know the likes, Jack and Rose, Romeo and Juliet, etc. Where you find love and there is a lot of drama. Yet love defeats all, and stands out to be the ultimate, amidst all the tragic happenings. As epic as it sounds, life works a lot more differently. You can\u2019t find an idealistic romance in the real world.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">First and foremost, love is not really found in this part called reality, it is built. Also, there mustn\u2019t be pain, tragedy, and drama in your relationship before it exudes passion.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"He\/She_should_know_how_I_am_feeling\"><\/span><strong><span class=\"tm7\">He\/She should know how I am feeling <\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Now, this is just a really misplaced expectation but is rather common. Your partner is no psychic. They may be clueless about what you feel at any given time. You shouldn\u2019t expect him\/her to know when you need something, or feel some kind of way. This is where communication should bridge. If you need something, say it. If you feel depressed, unhappy, etc, let him know. Don\u2019t make a fuss because he doesn\u2019t notice your mood or cannot read your thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"We_must_always_have_an_agreement_in_everything\"><\/span><strong><span class=\"tm7\">We must always have an agreement in everything<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Some people expect that in relationships, couples must always agree with each other in everything. Every decision and every action taken in the relationship must go down well with both parties. However, that is not always the case. As I pointed out earlier, you both are distinct individuals with different personalities. It is okay to disagree every once in a while.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Also, the whole idea of having to seek approval from your partner before you take every decision is so not really as well. Sometimes you have to follow your path on personal decisions. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"My_partner_will_love_my_friends_and_family_because_they_love_me\"><\/span><strong><span class=\"tm7\">My partner will love my friends and family because they love me<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Even in Hollywood, this doesn\u2019t always turn out to be true. It is wrong to expect this of your partner. Don\u2019t feel hurt when it doesn\u2019t turn out as you had imagined. You have to give them time with your friends and family. Patience is the key here. There might be some friction once in a while between your partner and your friends. It is usually better you try not to pick sides, just stay neutral. With time, they should get along just fine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm5\"><span class=\"tm6\">Relationships are beautiful when approached with an open mind, and a happy heart. You are in it to share, not to take alone. So, the sooner you ditch the idea of having to benefit happiness, financial support, love, and care from your partner without having much to give back, the better. Although, I buy the idea of \u2018You\u2019 and \u2018I\u2019 becoming \u2018We\u2019 but it is very important not to lose yourself. Remember you are both distinct persona. Also, sacrifices should be made by both parties to make it work. Yet, you don\u2019t have to turn into someone else you are not. Be flexible in your expectations and you will get disappointed less often.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Table of Contents His\/Her whole world must revolve around meRelationships will make you happyExpectation:Reality:You can change for the one you loveExpectation: Reality:It should be an epic romantic love storyHe\/She should know how I am feeling We must always have an agreement in everythingMy partner will love my friends and family because they love me Most of us have this crazy idea about relationships which we get from Hollywood movies. We picture a perfect romantic relationship. Subconsciously, we build certain expectations in our minds about dating. Well, it turns out that life is a lot more different in reality. Unfortunately, some of us refuse to let go of this idealistic love that only exists in fantasies. Therefore, we find that we can\u2019t get it right in our relationships. It just keeps going wrong over and over again like a merry-go-round. Well, it is time you reevaluate some of your beliefs and expectations of dating. &nbsp; His\/Her whole world must revolve around me Well, this is how Hollywood portrays it. You may expect that he places you at the center of your partner&#8217;s universe. However, in reality, it doesn\u2019t always turn out that way. 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