Topic: newbie, any advice I could use to improve my profile (inform
cupcake9007's photo
Sun 04/23/17 06:57 AM
Hey guys, I just signed up today..
I honestly don't know what to expect but I just wonder if I could get any advice on like either improving my pictures or profile information..
Thanks in advance? (:

Lord_Xarti's photo
Sun 04/23/17 03:23 PM
I am autistic so I must apologize in advance if my reply seems harsh or even insulting as that is definitely NOT my intention.

#1 The blurred borders on your photos make them look like crap. You cannot tell what you look like in the main photo and the third one going towards the right.

#2 The second photo (middle one with you in what looks to be a nighty) seems borderline sluttish. I would not respond to any woman that posts an image like that no matter how sexy or beautiful they seem to be.

#3 Hardly nobody comes to a dating website "just for friendship." As most men come to a dating service because they have either been rejected by society, too busy with home life, complicated circumstances in life or have been too preoccupied with their careers and are looking for either a girlfriend or possible marriage material.

#4 Your interests section is not that descriptive and needs far more detail and varied events. Telling us only a handful of things does not tell a whole lot about your character, morals or values. Simply put, it does not tell us men a great deal about you & we do not want to invest our time into a woman that might have 5% compatibility and have nothing else in common.

I think that with a little more work and a bit more detail your profile would be a lot better off. Try to upload classy photos of yourself. You are a VERY beautiful woman and should not need to place such racy photos online for all to see JUST to get a response from a loving gentleman. Even one that would be willing to just be friends.

I have designed my profile to scare off would be potential Catfish or money scammers & I think I found one anyway. My best advice would be to get off this 100% free site & just break down & pay for eHarmony. (I am going to once my parents get back from vacation).

By doing so you will most likely cut down on the possibility of running into any fakers or scammers since you are paying for contact and it would cost the scammer a ton of money just to be wasting time on somebody that just calls them out on their crap straight away.

I hope that this helps you out!

Have a great day & good luck in the future! ^_^