Hello community ... I have 26 years between 2 women, I divorced my first love and god took my second in December... due to the fact I'm 40yrs old and have 26 years between 2 woman, I have no idea how to date, or how to meet someone nice... I've gotten many sex offers since I've joined, but not what I'm looking for... I'm looking for a real woman that only wants one man... so rate me honestly so I can make adjustments accordingly ... please :)

Hey, you have been hit with the unlucky hammer!
Don't read into the offers of sex, there are a few unscrupulous young ladies and guy's come to that who will play on your feelings.
Take it slow and be choosy.
Your profile looks ok, you haven't focused on your loses so I think that's a good first off, that's something that can be taken into conversation later.
Good luck mate
Oh, maybe try chatting and being yourself in the forums if that's your thing. can be fun at times as long as you can take a joke and not take things to seriously!

Thanks man... I'll see where the forums go, just found them honestly

No problem. The forums can be serious and fun. also can pass the time while you're on your journey

Thank you for the info & advice

Sorry for your loss my friend. This is just my opinion but you may want to include more on your interests besides saying you like to do many things. A potential match may want to know specific interests that you enjoy. Other than that your profile looks okay. Stay active in the forums. It's a good way to get noticed. Good luck...