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I wonder why we hold on to things or individuals that caused pain...or happiness. Are we addicted to the memories and pain of things that were once good, or do we long to feel those moments again and look for all those traits we remember in every person. Maybe why I'm cautious with commitment. Used to people telling us what we want to hear and consciously telling others the same..I think that's because the ones we hold on to had traits we ourselves have, but the connection we hold and compassion we share with that person shows us that all we hold on to in ourHearts are all in the one in front..guess that's what defines love and seperates lust from the picture. **** I think to much..but what y'all think? We all are a beautiful tangle of just random defects and characteristics. Guess that is what people would place as, " love at first sight". -Me-
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Fact is people who we care for the most are the ones who can also give us the most pain indirectly or not.
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But love at first sight? Nah that is BS maybe just attraction or something else and definitely not love.
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But love at first sight? Nah that is BS maybe just attraction or something else and definitely not love.  such language ss! you are not supose to stoop to such levels we hold you to a better higher scale!
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But love at first sight? Nah that is BS maybe just attraction or something else and definitely not love. such language ss! you are not supose to stoop to such levels we hold you to a better higher scale! Ooops was I saying chitty acronyms wtf lol I am not myself. Pardon my spellings. Thanks Eric, that higher scale has put me back in track. Bless you |
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my pleasure dearest.
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I wonder why we hold on to things or individuals that caused pain...or happiness. Are we addicted to the memories and pain of things that were once good, or do we long to feel those moments again and look for all those traits we remember in every person. Maybe why I'm cautious with commitment. Used to people telling us what we want to hear and consciously telling others the same..I think that's because the ones we hold on to had traits we ourselves have, but the connection we hold and compassion we share with that person shows us that all we hold on to in ourHearts are all in the one in front..guess that's what defines love and seperates lust from the picture. **** I think to much..but what y'all think? We all are a beautiful tangle of just random defects and characteristics. Guess that is what people would place as, " love at first sight". -Me- Too much thinking |
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I wonder why we hold on to things or individuals that caused pain...or happiness. Are we addicted to the memories and pain of things that were once good, or do we long to feel those moments again and look for all those traits we remember in every person. Maybe why I'm cautious with commitment. Used to people telling us what we want to hear and consciously telling others the same..I think that's because the ones we hold on to had traits we ourselves have, but the connection we hold and compassion we share with that person shows us that all we hold on to in ourHearts are all in the one in front..guess that's what defines love and seperates lust from the picture. **** I think to much..but what y'all think? We all are a beautiful tangle of just random defects and characteristics. Guess that is what people would place as, " love at first sight". -Me- beautifully said actually all humans have flaws and strengths, sometimes it is more important to hold on to the strengths than to obsess on the flaws. And sometimes it is the other way around. Its is a matter of what priorities we have as individuals regarding our needs and wants. |
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IDK, why do "we" feel the need to post photos without bothering to put on a shirt?
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One reason why many people hang onto such things, I think, is that they have a natural desire to figure it all out. Figure out what went right and what went wrong. Go back over everything, and try to match it up to expectations. And once someone gets started in a "figure it out" game, they can get lost in it, fanatically trying to rewrite their own history. or they can get sidetracked, and get stuck mooning over the good old days.
Or even turn it into a project of it's own. Then they write another self-help book for others. |
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I wonder why we hold on to things or individuals that caused pain...or happiness. Are we addicted to the memories and pain of things that were once good, or do we long to feel those moments again and look for all those traits we remember in every person. Maybe why I'm cautious with commitment. Used to people telling us what we want to hear and consciously telling others the same..I think that's because the ones we hold on to had traits we ourselves have, but the connection we hold and compassion we share with that person shows us that all we hold on to in ourHearts are all in the one in front..guess that's what defines love and seperates lust from the picture. **** I think to much..but what y'all think? We all are a beautiful tangle of just random defects and characteristics. Guess that is what people would place as, " love at first sight". -Me- Been there/Done that Thru lots of self-examination and inner honesty I have concluded that is a delusion and dishonest to others and oneself. You can search the 'past' for a future. You can search the 'future' for your past. The only thing you will ever find is 'now' in the present. Live in the moment. See yourself as you are right now. See others as they are right now, not as you expect them to be. |
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Edited by
Duttoneer
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Fri 01/12/18 11:39 AM
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I wonder why we hold on to things or individuals that caused pain...or happiness. Are we addicted to the memories and pain of things that were once good, or do we long to feel those moments again and look for all those traits we remember in every person. Maybe why I'm cautious with commitment. Used to people telling us what we want to hear and consciously telling others the same..I think that's because the ones we hold on to had traits we ourselves have, but the connection we hold and compassion we share with that person shows us that all we hold on to in ourHearts are all in the one in front..guess that's what defines love and seperates lust from the picture. **** I think to much..but what y'all think? We all are a beautiful tangle of just random defects and characteristics. Guess that is what people would place as, " love at first sight". -Me- Maybe you are just feeling nostalgic. Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search. |
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It's nothing more than "reruns" ..Just like that over priced cable that seems to be nothing more than a continuous loop of the same old crap(sorry had 2 get that off my mind)..One's mind gets stuck in that continuous loop of the same old crap..So what do you do when you don't want to watch it..Ya change the freakin channel ..then call the cable company and bytch..lol ..So the next time ya think the same old crap ..change the channel ..bytch ..and then call the cable company and say hey what's the dang deal I keep thinkin' the same old crap..of course they'll think your nuts..but who cares... 
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love means
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