Nothing brings a couple closer than sex, sex is the ultimate expression of love.

The advice Pansytilly gave worked for me. You have to push the memories to the back of your mind and you do that by throwing yourself into something else. It does get easier with time and yes that is a clich�. If you deeply love someone those memories will stay with your forever and there may always be a part of you that looks back fondly at some of those memories, if that's the only love you have ever known, how can you not? Feeling sad, feeling miserable, depressed, all these are natural reactions. It doesn't make you any less of a man. It's normal.