You do realize that guys that find you attractive, pursue you, want to date you, are judging you just as much as the ones that are objectifying you, or rejecting you?

Ya I get that everyone judges everyone in one way or another, I just mean guys will say they are interested and want to get to know you, and put in effort just to ruin it by asking for sex. I mean I'm not saying that it's not normal, that's what a lot of people are online for. But id prefer if they saved me the time and just said upfront what they really want. Idk just ranting haha

Haha well it is me. I'm just a bigger girl haha

I'm just wondering if there's any guys out there who won't judge me for my looks and ask for nudes. Haha