Well I can not talk for all the girls,but I can talk for myself.
But the mind games starts when we do not feel appreciate it enough
So just think about this (just my personal opinion please do not get offended)....Woman...were Daddy's little girl, the princess of the house, the gorgeous girl, whatever, then we are living a world where we had been appreciated, admired etc. Then we meet a guy who seems to be in love with us, who is charming, cute, funny whatever, then we get exciting, we even find this guy so alike with Dad or uncles, or cousins etc, so then we start having a relationship with this guy and all what we have left after a time, is someone who is not the same guy we met from the beginning, (I am not saying men does not go through with same kind of circumstances) anyways, the little girl is not feeling the same so she starts to call his attention, now in men mind is like, ohh she is trying to manipulate me or playing games etc, and the real true is that each woman wants, wishes, desires to be loved the way she wants to be loved!....now the man just have to ask one question....How do you dream to be love....and that is it!!
of course...Your option would be...take it or leave it.
I have said!!!!

So OP what you're saying is you've pretty much been jerking off for the past 3 years & now you need a woman?

Handbags, Ladies want handbags, in my experience anyway

if all someone wants is cooking and cleaning, there are chefs and janitorial services available

They don't wanna cook
They don't wanna clean....
They don't want to tell you want they want ...there you go..

Honestly and totally no B.S what one woman wants will be different than the other wants.
I know that at times it may seem hopeless but we are human's so we continue to strive to find that other half of ourselves.

I think we all want basically the same things.
Our best friend,
Our playmate,
Our lover,
Our companion that will grow old with us if
we ever decide we will grow old.

I personally have seen so many that are in such a rush not to be alone that they choose someone that they believe will be the one eventually and then ultimately heart ache sets in... Because they aren't and then two people and hopefully not children get hurt.

I say take the time hell 3 years isn't nothing dude try almost a decade.. I needed that time to work on me and what I needed and before I could decide what I wanted and needed in a man I had to figure out just what and who I was.

best wishes to you


Trish I want part of that candybar..

google sense of humor and try to lighten up that is sarcasm

and..if ya had taken the time to actually read my profile instead of just visiting it..ya you would have figured this out already


have fun in mingle land

I want a piece of candy bar..or red shoes..or coffee

uh or maybe a new hair do and a pretzel

ya I may need to get back to ya on this one