although I'm new to this site, I have been on others with no luck. It's the same with the guys saying they want a relationship but all they really want is some one to talk/text/email dirty sex talk. No one commits to actually meeting in person.And I'm shocked that so many complain they get no hits on their profile but yet they don't respond when I send them a message. If there's no interest just say so. I'm hoping this site will be better but not getting my hopes up.Wishing you luck in your search.