I have actually wondered this myself lately. Am I really ready? It's not an easy question to answer. I like my life the way it is and if I have a man in my life things will change. However, if he is the right man, the changes and compromises I may have to make may not be as difficult as I may fear now. Love always finds a way. I think it will depend on the relationship. If it's good, it will be worth putting aside the fears and insecurities I may have about loving him and taking that leap of faith.