Yep I hear you! Once i was really sick for several days but the last day I fell asleep at 7pm. I was up at 3 in the morning! Completely refreshed and healed, I just couldnt figure out what to do with my energy. LOL, but at noon, I felt like the day supposed to be over!

Yeah, I got a problem of going to sleep late, maybe i change that. Back in the day when i was in the military, the latest going to sleep was around 10pm and I had no choice but to get up at 4am every day. Did that for 6 years. Not every day but almost, then i worked for UPS as a part time job while going to college, so I would be up at 3:30am, working until 9am, then go home and shower and leave to college at 11am.
Come home at 7 -8pm, go to sleep at 9 and rinse and repeat for 4 years.

Why i cant find any one the way i want.

So have you gone sleeping earlier than ever some time? Like, going to sleep at 8 or 9pm? How did you feel in the morning? Did you also wake up early? How was it like getting up at 4:00 or 4:30 in the morning, when you would normally get up at 6 or 7?


The earliest time I go to bed these days is 11pm. Usually I go to bed past midnight.It would be really great again to sleep at 8pm.I used to sleep as early as that and i felt really refreshed in the morning.

Sooooooooooo Not true!

You underestimate yourselves you have some stunning women there, and even the average women is pretty, if you think that ALL american women are prettier than you you are sadly mistaken. there are for the most part more beautiful pinay's then americans - don't judge by what you see on tv or magazines, that is only a small percentage of the women here 5% at most. Besides, beauty is in the eye's of the beholder no one is going to find the "perfect girl" here or elsewhere - just one that is right for you and your life and dreams if your lucky. Your faith in god is neither a plus or a minus, it is merely the way you've been raised (which i highly admire)but would not be a deciding issue for a wife.
Whether i fall in love with a nun or a pagan is secondary to me - it is what is in the heart that matter's to me. The attitude of life and how it is lived and enjoyed. " GOOD WIFE" yes you can brag on that all you want to there is no doubt because of yur upbringing and strong family values you may lead the world in good values.not all but most - there are alway's a percentage of bad apples every where I hope other's take from your message here Ms. pinay, your certainly worth their time and effort's

most sincerely - sam / tribo

I thank you for your support. It will be hard too trust again because it's alway about money. or a stepping stone to the USA or what ever countrymen they choose. I like the culture of the Philippines and and a women who wants a simple life not arguing over money.....Just and nice low maintenance filipina. The problem is!! do they exist? I now many Philipina's that are friends of mine here in the US tat are true to their American husbands. They have great respect for one another.

I have a home in the Philippines in Dumaguete City. I really want too come there and live maybe meet someone like what I have said above.

Trying too keep the FAITH, Alan

Whats wrong with "Man Boobs"???

just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?

Sadly...a man like that has serious problems...alcohol is more than likely involved. People whom are abusive slowly tend to escalate in their behaviors- getting more abusive physically and verbally.
Now that she is taking a stand- he is going to show more of himself because bullies/cowards cannot take being turned down or stood up to.
A restraining order is needed immediately.
Here in Nevada- there is a place called 'Safe Nest'. Women and children go there to get out of their abusive relationship and away from such people. The program places women in residences and gives career couseling, therapy and job placement if available. It's address is unknown so the men cannot show up and start trouble. She needs to get into a program of some sort quickly. Unfortunately, she may have to move to get away from him, even out of state.
I lived in Gainesville and St Pete, the good ol' boy mentally is rampant there including the police. I was in the sit only 1x in my life and when the police arrived...they wanted to arrest me also because I had scratched him under his eye and altho beaten up pretty badly because I was trying to get away from him. They knew him from being from there and I was a ex NYer also...they didn't like my attitude, as him. MAYBE things have changed since then and G. is probally a place it has but she does need to get out of that situation before someone gets hurt seriously.. guys like that do not simply just walk away! I did and it was the only time a man hit me in my life. No One, and I mean no one! loves you if they beat you and they simply do not just say "I will never do it again' unless they really get into some serious anger management and behavior modification program like Rational-Emotive Therapy for one. And she should not be around while he is doing it. If he sincerely wants to be with his family- he will do all he can and then they could tenatively try it again- but she needs to take herself and children out of harms way asap.
And if she cannot do it for herself..because she 'loves' him...she needs to think/put the children first, they will be messed up for years-may be permanently from seeing/receiving it themselves. A little therapy looks in order also for her for staying as long as she has...she may have grown up in that sort of family herself and needs to learn to tell herself "the buck stops here".