I think we are in a time, where people are trying too hard to pleases people or scared to reveal their truth self because of the fear of getting hurt or hurt again . I believe if one just be themselves and focus on being a better person and stop focusing on how to change people to suit them. The world may not be so shallow and judgmental. I also believe we attract what we feel. If one feel that the opposite sex is well sluty,no good or whatever, that may be what the universe will send you. The day I changed my way of thinking was honestly the day my world changed. Now I won't say a couple of no-no's won't come in your life but at least you can dodge the ball and focus on something else. And let's not forget it is alot of role reversal going on. And lets not forget alot of people are living by the flesh and less of the soul. But then again what do I know. Anyway I hope you all find what your heart and soul desires.

The brains for sure, besides beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.