To wolfchic.....right? and ...I must ad....wolves r my favorite animal.

Tex, you are a strange creature with all of this hippy free love but "keep your hands off my bread man" stuff. Some of us don't want to end up lonely old men though and some of us don't care that much about money.

You presumably don't mind paying for a date but you won't financially invest in a relationship? Well done for raising kids if their mother was as lazy and useless as you say that she was but that's a really tough gig and most people don't want to do it on their own. I have never been married but it is about sharing and working together if it's about anything. You had a bad relationship and have no concept of social justice, so everyone that needs a helping hand is a freeloader after your precious hard-earned dollars.