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Wed 01/12/11 01:57 PM



Everything I want from a man,cannot be bought.


Best wishesflowers


What is that everything?



I am probally forgetting something, but my first thoughts..
Acceptance
Love
Patience
Faithfulness
Cuddling
Hugs
Kisses
and..
Sexting
and being a freak in the bedroom..or is it letting me be a freaksurprised laugh


and no lies...noway


and I want his MEATrofl


LOL that sounds like me.. AHAHAHH

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Wed 01/12/11 01:44 PM


If it appears that someone is only interested in WHAT you have to offer, then they are not truly interested in YOU.


well, thats about 99% of the women i meet... i'm ok with that, because i already know what they want....


true I am not a vegetarian lol

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Wed 01/12/11 01:44 PM


If it appears that someone is only interested in WHAT you have to offer, then they are not truly interested in YOU.


well, thats about 99% of the women i meet... i'm ok with that, because i already know what they want....


true I am not a vegetarian lol

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Wed 01/12/11 01:36 PM

I want to be wanted and loved for who I am,both inside and outside.NO I'm not just a piece of meat.I want the person that I'm dating and with to show me respect,as I will respect him.


No meat i just meant that as if i was a store that had stuff to offer.. well we all have something to offer.. but I get that a lot... and You are right inside out

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Wed 01/12/11 01:30 PM

Everything I want from a man,cannot be bought.


Best wishesflowers


What is that everything?

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Wed 01/12/11 05:34 AM

If it appears that someone is only interested in WHAT you have to offer, then they are not truly interested in YOU.


True...

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Wed 01/12/11 05:34 AM

yes it should be about what a person brings to the relationship honesty integrity and at least the ability to hold a job or take care of the house male or female it should never be about money or possessions. the qualities that we look for in friends and of course you have to be attractrd to them. just saying


I mean, good heart, wisdom, intelligence, manners, loyaty, honesty, and so many other great things that I look in a person, not just for what they offer because we all offer something but to love them how they are and the great things they have.. definately ppl have to bring things to the table

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Wed 01/12/11 01:35 AM
I just wanted to say that relations and love should not be as hard as sometimes it is.. You just got to love for who the person is and the other one has to love you for who you are.. I think that I am not a meat market neither you are! Why is everyone trying to date because of what you have to offer, maybe money, car, clothes, stability, good look, so on.. so many things that people are always asking for.. I mean is ok to like how the person looks and how the person behaves and if they have money but it is only a little part of it.. Do not you think there is much more important stuff than that? I want to know what women specially think about this! I am just throwing an idea.. I want to see what people think!

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Mon 01/03/11 11:28 AM

to have sex u have to be with the person u are truly in love with one another if not bad things could happen know what i mean


correct I am not any slut! =) true.. thanks for the comment

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Mon 01/03/11 10:02 AM
so you live in calgry canada.. wow.. i am amazed.. hey so i would like to konw how you know people by first sight because i cannot do that.. i am very interested in learning that talent!

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Mon 01/03/11 10:01 AM




Hummm so it makes me wonder why if she was so bad even on the first date why keep going back for another every day for the next week or more?whoa


When one wears blinders all blame can not only fall upon one....noway



That thought crossed my mind too...If someone is a jerk it doesnt take me more than one date to figure it out ohwell


I bet it would take you 2 dates to figure out I an a$$


Hahaha your one of those wanna be azzes even ese can't pull that one offnoway noway :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


OK.. I am an *** but i want to see how you do this magic.. you are incredible.. hey i am amazed

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Mon 01/03/11 10:00 AM


I just wanted to share with people my experience with this lost soul, and I was not even trying. I guess it is part of my fault too since I should not have dated her from the beggining, but well lets start.
I meet someone who is gorgeous on the outside, and I got to say people have to be attracted to each other no doubt, but well it is only little important. We went to eat she said that she was upset because I made her wait a little, and I thought she did not like me from the beginning. Well, we eat, and talked, and everything was ok. I went on a date everyday after that with her for about a week. I got to get to know her just till the end of a long journey. She was very much into fashion and looks which is ok, but if you life is all about that then I feel sorry for you.She wanted me like to worship her! She wanted to have all the attention and I had to do everthing she wanted. She was very much of a manipulative personality, and I was not down to keep up with that. At the end,I was very confused on whether I had a relationship or I was just being used to please this person, pay for her bills, and take her around town. I treated her like a princess and received nothing in return. She had this attitude, and always bitching and complaining about these little things. She always thought that she was better than everyone, always had his caless mind about everything. She believed that she deserved everything, and had this princess mindset. She was arrogant, and had nothing to give in return but his "beauty" She never told me I like you or anything like that but she insisted on going out with me, shopping (like if i was gong to buy her $500 heels!I am a gentlemen but no stupid). On the last date she was such a *****! supposely a vegeterian that loves to wear fur. She does not even know who she is, but she is evil and I always told her that.. She was about to eat me alive and spit my bones. I thank God that I realized that and dumped her right at that bar. I feel proud of that because I was so happy and relax next day i slept like a baby again! Well, if you are just a player, just want to use people, you are superficial, arrogant,self lover and worshiper,just care about yourself,believe you are better than everyone else,rude,rotten meat inside,but gorgeous outside.Well you might be a perfect match for someone else but not me. I want a good heart good soul person. Someone who loves and respects God and life. Someone who loves others and not just them. Do not get upset if you got what you deserve.

Happy New Years Everyone
Hope that you do not find a lot of these around
If you like that i feel sorry for you
ReyJ


You kept taking her out, EVERYTHING you did was by YOUR CHOICE.
You must have been getting what you wanted,at that time. Or expected to get something? just my thoughts/opinion.


Well this type of person is hard to find out right away and well is my fault too i am not taking the blame on me.. why people think that.. I take full blame and i learned my lesson.. I moved on and i am better off

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Mon 01/03/11 09:57 AM

just walk away an dont look back the milks soured.


so right.. i feel sorry for here becuase i hope she knew where she was hhahahahaa

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Mon 01/03/11 09:19 AM

Chalk it up to lesson learned,you will know what not to look for next time.Their are some wonderful people out their,some times we have to kiss a few frogs before we find our gem.:wink:


This was an stinky frogs.. i think i am done with frogs already! =0 ewww lol but true I know by the hour who I am and what i am looking for and that is a great thing! =)

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Mon 01/03/11 09:17 AM


Hummm so it makes me wonder why if she was so bad even on the first date why keep going back for another every day for the next week or more?whoa


When one wears blinders all blame can not only fall upon one....noway



That thought crossed my mind too...If someone is a jerk it doesnt take me more than one date to figure it out ohwell


No i could not figure it out on the first date.. we spoke and had a drink and eat something but i cannot discover the world of someone's mind on the first date.. specially when the person is a beautiful woman, but the craziest thing is that I am still confused with her character everytime i do the math on her I never get a coherent result.. this is just beyond my understanding still.. but well I figured it out on time that is what makes me happy about myself! =)

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Mon 01/03/11 09:11 AM


yeah she was hot but as i was saying pigs are pigs and sheeps are sheeps. I am not using anyone for any reason... so I would not use any woman that way. I am a gentlemen and I will alwyas be


Stick with being a gentleman ans you wil find someone who will love you for you


so true I am not letting outside factors to change how I am inside.. if someone likes the way I am then, great! I am not like many so I think i deserve that.. but I love the fact that i had the experince and I am happy about it.. guess what.. now I am better off than before =) Thanks for your kind comment! you are so right =) Blessings

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Mon 01/03/11 09:07 AM

how long did it take you to realize she "wasnt the one"?...before or after you slept with her....huh

this victimization crap is for the birds...youre a grown man...so she wasnt your type, and now youre crying about it on a dating website...live and learn, build a bridge, move on...brokenheart


Oh I never slept with her.. I can know someone before I sleep with them.. I am not saying I am victim, but the reason for this post it was to express myself and let people know that there is people like that around.. You got to be careful who you are going out with. I would not do sometihng like that for my advantage because I have morals and values, but I am a nice person and i believe that everyone is like me and that is a big mistake

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Fri 12/31/10 09:10 PM
I wish all a great year! I hope that we all find the good things that we need. May the good Lord enlight you and bless you all!
Enjoy and be safe =)

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Fri 12/31/10 08:00 PM


yeah she was hot but as i was saying pigs are pigs and sheeps are sheeps. I am not using anyone for any reason... so I would not use any woman that way. I am a gentlemen and I will alwyas be


thats cool... let me ask you this...why did you go out with her in the first place? it's the same reason as everyone else...to make you happy... that in it self is using her, whether you realize that or not... so she can't make you happy, and you dumped her...that sounds like a minor form of using to me, not that it is a bad thing...

well i was not really trying to use her.. I just wanted to give her a chance and see if we can have a relationship... i do not think that love is using someone? is it?

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Fri 12/31/10 07:57 PM

no thanks.. karma has a way of biting ppl in the a$$...lol

Exactly Karma is always going to get you! Nice quote.. yeah I got to tell you that I never dated anyone that does not exercise Christianity and that is not a good hearted person. I really never judge the book by its cover, but well I guess I wanted to give a chance to the complete opposite but well i learned my lesson!

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