Hopefully there will be no "shrinkage"


Ask her out, go very slow about the sex stuff, go out a couple of times, and don't push it. See what happens, if there is no connection on that level you can still be good friends. Once you start the sex, there is no 'just friends' anymore. At least I never could do that.
Good Luck.

Well now it has been (2 days shy of ) 3 yrs for Lilypetal and I. We share a home together, as well as a wonderful life together. A few ups and downs as in any relationship but we work together to make it work. We still pursue our favorite activities and some new ones too. We drove past the mileage marker that I saw that posted "Muskegon 138" and laughed because when I saw it the first time I thought that's not to far to go and meet someone for a date. I didn't know then how far that first meet and greet would take us, but here we are.

the young guys are dating older women!

You guys realize there was a 2 yr gap in people responding to this thread.
State threads are pretty much dead.

Long time, not so much anymore since I Found someone.

Faithful friend, lance bearer.

Siddhartha- Hermann Hesse.
Novelised version of the life of the Buddha.

They are young and goofy!

One and done.

I haven't been around much in the last yr because I met someone here and there is really no need to come around. I only had one other internet date that was a bust, some other weirdness in chatting with a few women. Be active in the forums, when contacting be polite, don't lie about height-weight-age-income. Be as real as you would like others to be. You can have a good time here and meet some good people.

Yes I am happy too!!!

Today is Lilypetal's and Michiganmn3's 2 year anniversary! We met for lunch...did a little geocaching.....a walk along the beach(Lake Michigan) That first date lasted 7 hrs. We have been together ever since. Lilypetal moved to where I am living and soon we will set up a home together. It has been a wonderful 2 yrs.

bald, bifocals, hearing aids,

Get active in the forums, these 'State' forums are dead.

City kid here, So Cal. then Denver.
Ethnically diverse world.

Now I am in north-western Michigan, small town, kinda rural, 98% northern europino's.

who knows what is next?

Hack Attack!

I'm still thinkin' of ya.

Lilypetal and I have been going strong since our first date July 2009!!!!!!!!!