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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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He Did It!
QUOTE: Absolutely Elated with your happy announcement!!! Congrats to a young man who clearly has the right stuff and a Mom that allowed him to flourish. Reminds me of my favorite concept you Lable Jars not Children! Will look forward to hearing what his bright future holds. Way to go Mom! Thanks for shareing. thank you for your generous comment!
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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feelings
QUOTE: How do u feel when u suddenly realise that the person u love most, you missed most is not with you? Tel me. if someone is that close to you how can they suddenly not be with you and you not realize this? perhaps they weren't as close to you as you thought |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Do age does matters?
QUOTE: More than real age, what's important is the mind age. Some people can be 60 and still be pretty inmature and there are some really mature young people. Anyhow, above all, what really matters, is being right for each other....
thee has said something that is true. I think it is the exception you describe, though I agree that an open mind and an open heart finds all :) |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Allow me to answer my own question.... None of you got the answers. Just random bitching with no solutions. Hmmmmm...sounds like you would all make great presidents. You are embarrassing. Let me show you how it is done.... First thing...take a vacation. Secondly...execute everyone on deathrow...in an hour. Legalize and tax the crap out of pot and gambling. Nuke a country to get my point across Haaa something we agree on,, except the nuking,,,,thats just cruel attorneys can afford to take vacations, whether they are in a white house in DC or a 500 sq foot home in beverly hills kind of time to get over it,,,,, better to have a president who isnt uptight with 24/7 work, and who gives enough of a damn about his family to continue being part of THEIR lives (something bush didnt worry about considering how old his girls were and how much he didnt care for them anyhow)... and newsflash, there is ALWAYS an american somewhere in the world losing their life 'for our country' whether in a declared war or not,,,,and that life they die for is one that includes the right to work and earn vacations,,,quite honestly still drinking that democratic koolade, i see... just know the difference between a real family and a political one IM glad the president has a real family, I hope they continue to be one , to take the vacations they earned, and to instill discipline and hard work in their children,,, you really need to stop drinking the koolade...if you actually believe this nonsense you just typed... he hasn't spoken any truths since he's been in office, and now you want us to believe he's "earned" his vacations, instilled "hard work" values in his children... the only thing i can respect him for is not having an affair... what job, besides the presidency, do people get FREE vacations averaging 1 vacation a month... he earned that? your confusing entitlements with earned... yea, the king and queen have earned so much... who says they are 'free'? besides his security details his income is earned, like anyone elses job, and his earned income can be spent how he chooses, like anyone else with a job what jobs? congressmen lawyers teachers doctors.,, bankers lobbyists salespersons.... any job where they make the money to EARN to pay for a vacation and the time to spend on one,, basically,,, and wrong... every one of them pays their own way, even without a security detail... of course they do, with the income they receive from tAXPAYERS just like a president,,, maybe your out of the workforce or something... when was the last time you took 10 vacations in a year? teachers get to have 10 vacations a year? do any of these people take any kind of vacations while their company is trillions of dollars in dept, and on the verge of bankruptcy? i'm just not following what your saying here first of all , define 'vacation' these stories usually include ANY trip out of the state my son, for instance, takes a 'vacation' at least once a month from nevada to california,,,lol I know many people in the 'upper class' income range who getaway one weekend a month to someplace out of town (thats twelve 'vacations' a year) the president earns about 3/4 a mill per year outside of his presidential income, Im sure people in that income bracket take 'vacations' as often as they like,,,, Are any of these people you know taking expensive vacations on the companies dollar, and are they taking vacations while the company is going under? you still seem to think obama is paying for something, when in fact, he's just being the entitlist that he thinks his family is...4 million dollars is the cost of his Hawaii excursion, and the queen is skiing right now in colorado, with the little princesses... so far this year, 4 vacations already... the leaders of anything are not effective leaders when they do not set an example for the people beneath them. the only example he has set is how to lie convincingly... haaa, keep changing the criteria for the vacations huh? well , there is no way to get around costing taxpayers dollars whenever you leave the white house if you are the first family its worth it to me for them to be safe and carry on as a family as they would if not in the white house,,, of course they arent going to travel greyhound bus or american airlines,, they are the FIRST FAMILY so yes, their detailed transport and security cost money,, as has the transport and security of any other president and their families there is no 'example' to be set, when one is earning in the income bracket of the president,, one of the POINTS is having the freedom to do more things like that , which those not in that income bracket cannot necessarily do until they are also part of that income bracket thats the 'american dream'......greater income=more resources and more freedom the man and his wife make enough WITHOUT THIS JOB to provide the lifestyle and freedoms they and their children have , why would anyone expect them to live as if they have LESS because of his title? how about the freedom to stay in washington and do some work? I was glad to hear that he is returning 5% of his salary due to the sequester but being the president is alm ost definitive workaholic schedule - if he can't handle that he needs to go....jmho why are people assuming a president has to be in DC to work? never heard of technology? teleconferencing, skype, laptops, remote access,,,etc,,,etc,,,etc,,,, it's best done in the office at his place of business. I am sure he does do some work and PR photos and such when on a vacay but I think we need our prez to be in D.C. normally I don't think his vacations would be an issue but the economy is such a mess and gun control initiative is failing, immigration is a joke....it just doesn't look good to leave the nest when the chicks aren't guarded....poor timing maybe? the economy is improving, it will never be perfect, at what point will it be not a 'mess' enough for him to be able to leave his 'place of business'? I dont know, my mom was a working woman and she took many vacations where she also worked with us kids and the whole family,, and that was BEFORE Technological advances I just dont think physical location has ANYTHING to do with capacity to work once one is in a leadership position the president doesnt actually 'guard' anyone at the white house,,that he cannot guard from anyplace with a phone and satellite connection via which he can communicate, listen, advise, and direct so his presence in that specific building doesnt affect the country in my opinion and people , in my opinion, who believe its the physical location that matters, are not quite understanding the advances of technology communication is communication, whether via a teleconference thousands of miles apart or sitting at the same table,,,in the same building,,,, your mother wasn't the president I understand technology better than most and communication is my profession, there is a tangible quanlitative difference when communication is in person. He's being paid to be in the Oval office and if he'd like to be elsewhere there are other jobs out there.... the economy is not improving substanitally in anyway that I notice, N Korea is threatening war and HIS own gun control legislation is failing you just don't get to go out and play before your room is clean and you can't clean it from a beach house several hundred miles away I think anyone who leaves their workplace for a holiday at a time like this should be questioned...it's just not a good time for that now..and those of us who do question his timing have every right to do so. he works FOR us |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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So...What do you expect?
QUOTE: I agree with Cynderella and Kartagane about the courtesy thing. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I vision some guy dressed up in a medieval sword-fighter costume, saying Shakespeare stuff to me. I mean I want to be treated POLITELY, but that is hard to come by, these days. unfortunately I have to agree with this (acknowledging the exceptios of course) but manners seem a distant memory in the man dept. these days |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
sleepy!
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Do age does matters?
QUOTE: QUOTE: I really like your comment and take on this kissable. I doubt a much younger man is going to be right for me, but certainly you make some good points. Well we all have our preferences thats what make us unique ...do whatever make you happy . I agree - right now tickets and a hotel in Jamaica sounds good....lol truth is I do not have a problem with an age difference if the right person comes along and he is a little older or younger than me it's fine. I just don't see many real young guys who really know how to approach an older woman and maybe they really just prefer their own age for dating. I think tht's OK too |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Allow me to answer my own question.... None of you got the answers. Just random bitching with no solutions. Hmmmmm...sounds like you would all make great presidents. You are embarrassing. Let me show you how it is done.... First thing...take a vacation. Secondly...execute everyone on deathrow...in an hour. Legalize and tax the crap out of pot and gambling. Nuke a country to get my point across Haaa something we agree on,, except the nuking,,,,thats just cruel attorneys can afford to take vacations, whether they are in a white house in DC or a 500 sq foot home in beverly hills kind of time to get over it,,,,, better to have a president who isnt uptight with 24/7 work, and who gives enough of a damn about his family to continue being part of THEIR lives (something bush didnt worry about considering how old his girls were and how much he didnt care for them anyhow)... and newsflash, there is ALWAYS an american somewhere in the world losing their life 'for our country' whether in a declared war or not,,,,and that life they die for is one that includes the right to work and earn vacations,,,quite honestly still drinking that democratic koolade, i see... just know the difference between a real family and a political one IM glad the president has a real family, I hope they continue to be one , to take the vacations they earned, and to instill discipline and hard work in their children,,, you really need to stop drinking the koolade...if you actually believe this nonsense you just typed... he hasn't spoken any truths since he's been in office, and now you want us to believe he's "earned" his vacations, instilled "hard work" values in his children... the only thing i can respect him for is not having an affair... what job, besides the presidency, do people get FREE vacations averaging 1 vacation a month... he earned that? your confusing entitlements with earned... yea, the king and queen have earned so much... who says they are 'free'? besides his security details his income is earned, like anyone elses job, and his earned income can be spent how he chooses, like anyone else with a job what jobs? congressmen lawyers teachers doctors.,, bankers lobbyists salespersons.... any job where they make the money to EARN to pay for a vacation and the time to spend on one,, basically,,, and wrong... every one of them pays their own way, even without a security detail... of course they do, with the income they receive from tAXPAYERS just like a president,,, maybe your out of the workforce or something... when was the last time you took 10 vacations in a year? teachers get to have 10 vacations a year? do any of these people take any kind of vacations while their company is trillions of dollars in dept, and on the verge of bankruptcy? i'm just not following what your saying here first of all , define 'vacation' these stories usually include ANY trip out of the state my son, for instance, takes a 'vacation' at least once a month from nevada to california,,,lol I know many people in the 'upper class' income range who getaway one weekend a month to someplace out of town (thats twelve 'vacations' a year) the president earns about 3/4 a mill per year outside of his presidential income, Im sure people in that income bracket take 'vacations' as often as they like,,,, Are any of these people you know taking expensive vacations on the companies dollar, and are they taking vacations while the company is going under? you still seem to think obama is paying for something, when in fact, he's just being the entitlist that he thinks his family is...4 million dollars is the cost of his Hawaii excursion, and the queen is skiing right now in colorado, with the little princesses... so far this year, 4 vacations already... the leaders of anything are not effective leaders when they do not set an example for the people beneath them. the only example he has set is how to lie convincingly... haaa, keep changing the criteria for the vacations huh? well , there is no way to get around costing taxpayers dollars whenever you leave the white house if you are the first family its worth it to me for them to be safe and carry on as a family as they would if not in the white house,,, of course they arent going to travel greyhound bus or american airlines,, they are the FIRST FAMILY so yes, their detailed transport and security cost money,, as has the transport and security of any other president and their families there is no 'example' to be set, when one is earning in the income bracket of the president,, one of the POINTS is having the freedom to do more things like that , which those not in that income bracket cannot necessarily do until they are also part of that income bracket thats the 'american dream'......greater income=more resources and more freedom the man and his wife make enough WITHOUT THIS JOB to provide the lifestyle and freedoms they and their children have , why would anyone expect them to live as if they have LESS because of his title? how about the freedom to stay in washington and do some work? I was glad to hear that he is returning 5% of his salary due to the sequester but being the president is alm ost definitive workaholic schedule - if he can't handle that he needs to go....jmho why are people assuming a president has to be in DC to work? never heard of technology? teleconferencing, skype, laptops, remote access,,,etc,,,etc,,,etc,,,, it's best done in the office at his place of business. I am sure he does do some work and PR photos and such when on a vacay but I think we need our prez to be in D.C. normally I don't think his vacations would be an issue but the economy is such a mess and gun control initiative is failing, immigration is a joke....it just doesn't look good to leave the nest when the chicks aren't guarded....poor timing maybe? |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Do age does matters?
I really like your comment and take on this kissable.
I doubt a much younger man is going to be right for me, but certainly you make some good points. |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Allow me to answer my own question.... None of you got the answers. Just random bitching with no solutions. Hmmmmm...sounds like you would all make great presidents. You are embarrassing. Let me show you how it is done.... First thing...take a vacation. Secondly...execute everyone on deathrow...in an hour. Legalize and tax the crap out of pot and gambling. Nuke a country to get my point across Haaa something we agree on,, except the nuking,,,,thats just cruel attorneys can afford to take vacations, whether they are in a white house in DC or a 500 sq foot home in beverly hills kind of time to get over it,,,,, better to have a president who isnt uptight with 24/7 work, and who gives enough of a damn about his family to continue being part of THEIR lives (something bush didnt worry about considering how old his girls were and how much he didnt care for them anyhow)... and newsflash, there is ALWAYS an american somewhere in the world losing their life 'for our country' whether in a declared war or not,,,,and that life they die for is one that includes the right to work and earn vacations,,,quite honestly still drinking that democratic koolade, i see... just know the difference between a real family and a political one IM glad the president has a real family, I hope they continue to be one , to take the vacations they earned, and to instill discipline and hard work in their children,,, you really need to stop drinking the koolade...if you actually believe this nonsense you just typed... he hasn't spoken any truths since he's been in office, and now you want us to believe he's "earned" his vacations, instilled "hard work" values in his children... the only thing i can respect him for is not having an affair... what job, besides the presidency, do people get FREE vacations averaging 1 vacation a month... he earned that? your confusing entitlements with earned... yea, the king and queen have earned so much... who says they are 'free'? besides his security details his income is earned, like anyone elses job, and his earned income can be spent how he chooses, like anyone else with a job what jobs? congressmen lawyers teachers doctors.,, bankers lobbyists salespersons.... any job where they make the money to EARN to pay for a vacation and the time to spend on one,, basically,,, and wrong... every one of them pays their own way, even without a security detail... of course they do, with the income they receive from tAXPAYERS just like a president,,, maybe your out of the workforce or something... when was the last time you took 10 vacations in a year? teachers get to have 10 vacations a year? do any of these people take any kind of vacations while their company is trillions of dollars in dept, and on the verge of bankruptcy? i'm just not following what your saying here first of all , define 'vacation' these stories usually include ANY trip out of the state my son, for instance, takes a 'vacation' at least once a month from nevada to california,,,lol I know many people in the 'upper class' income range who getaway one weekend a month to someplace out of town (thats twelve 'vacations' a year) the president earns about 3/4 a mill per year outside of his presidential income, Im sure people in that income bracket take 'vacations' as often as they like,,,, Are any of these people you know taking expensive vacations on the companies dollar, and are they taking vacations while the company is going under? you still seem to think obama is paying for something, when in fact, he's just being the entitlist that he thinks his family is...4 million dollars is the cost of his Hawaii excursion, and the queen is skiing right now in colorado, with the little princesses... so far this year, 4 vacations already... the leaders of anything are not effective leaders when they do not set an example for the people beneath them. the only example he has set is how to lie convincingly... haaa, keep changing the criteria for the vacations huh? well , there is no way to get around costing taxpayers dollars whenever you leave the white house if you are the first family its worth it to me for them to be safe and carry on as a family as they would if not in the white house,,, of course they arent going to travel greyhound bus or american airlines,, they are the FIRST FAMILY so yes, their detailed transport and security cost money,, as has the transport and security of any other president and their families there is no 'example' to be set, when one is earning in the income bracket of the president,, one of the POINTS is having the freedom to do more things like that , which those not in that income bracket cannot necessarily do until they are also part of that income bracket thats the 'american dream'......greater income=more resources and more freedom the man and his wife make enough WITHOUT THIS JOB to provide the lifestyle and freedoms they and their children have , why would anyone expect them to live as if they have LESS because of his title? how about the freedom to stay in washington and do some work? I was glad to hear that he is returning 5% of his salary due to the sequester but being the president is alm ost definitive workaholic schedule - if he can't handle that he needs to go....jmho |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Where's all the honest men?
QUOTE: Men get sick of hearing how "all of us" are jerks and bad boys. Do women realize their credibility goes down the tubes when they make stereo-typical statements like this? Seriously, do most of you believe there are no good men left in the world? If "ALL" men are created evil why do women want one? QUOTE: Despite me being a female, I actually agree with you on this. It's wrong to label all men as dishonest, as no woman has dated every man on the planet. All men will think, every time they hear this type of cliche question, they will think to hell with this dating malarky. Why should he bother, or even THINK a woman truly wants him, if all he see's a negative misnomer's about men? Luckily, I do still believe that good men exist. There are different levels of good. Making negative concoctions about the opposite sex isn't really a good idea. that was my entire point (your last sentence) where he got the rest of the vomit he threw my way, I have no idea. I don't agree with him because he is pulling the immature stunt of trying to turn the tables to deflect from the fact that I made a very valid point of saying the OP's negativity could hurt him |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Where's all the honest men?
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: i am honest just wish all the woman i have been with were but i guess they liked playing games most women play games, i think it's in their DNA or something... the nice ones are always taken, for the apparent reason, and whats left over are the game players... ... yet when women make the same statements about men all of the other women support them. Women, so freely, say "there aren't any good men left" yet if a man says this about women he's attacked. Men get sick of hearing how "all of us" are jerks and bad boys. Do women realize their credibility goes down the tubes when they make stereo-typical statements like this? Seriously, do most of you believe there are no good men left in the world? If "ALL" men are created evil why do women want one? that isn't even close to what I said. I didn't say anything bad about men. I dont appreciate your personal attack and I will report if you continue. I said his negative comments probably won't win him many female friends. that has nothing to do with how I feel about men. personally I think both genders need to own up to the fact that people can be buttheads sometimes and it's more to do with the fact that we are human and make mistakes than anyone's gender |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
QUOTE: If I have to narrow it down to the top five, probably Uris, Tolstoy, Hugo, Rutherford and Michener. michener, uris and hugo should definitely be on my list of favorites but the list I made was based on the OP's question describing my personality. I've read Les Miserables and Hawaii, Sayonara, The Tell and Cetennial all twice |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Sylvia Plath Paul Coelho Richard Bach Dr. Seuss... I can't think of a 5th one Dr Seuss is actually an awesome choice - shows humor, imagination and a good moral for each story A 5th one? How about Richard Scarry or the guy who wrote the Curious George books? I've never read anything by Richard Scarry, and I only know of the Curious George cartoons on tv, but I'll make a note to look them up next time I'm at the library. they are kids books but they're great! if you have kids they'd love them!!! |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Is it wrong to cheat
QUOTE: Ive cheated and the person who ive cheated with is in my same shoes. Her husband doesnt satify her. Whats wrong with filling that void with no strings attached? I can't beleive this is even a question. you know it's wrong or you wouldn't be asking I hope the divorce lawyers take it all from you both one day |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Do age does matters?
age definitely matters.
I am not at all interested in much younger men for many reasons but mainly because of lifestyle preferences and personality compatibility issues. Most much younger men were also not raised up at a time where boys were still taught to treat a lady with respect, so alot of their behavior is a total turn off anyway just because they haven't been taught gentlemanly behavior. I am sure there are some out there that have been, but many I've met are pretty immature and often disrespectful...and usually just want casual sex that I am not interested in. jmho
being friends is cool tho
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Top 5 Favorite Directors
I am not sure I know the difference between the director and the producer but here goes and if I err I will stand corrected. But don't most of these guys do both
Lasse Hallstrom John Lucas Steven Spielberg Quentin Tarantino woody allen |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: President Obama isn't taking more vacations that most of the other recent presidents, and while his vacations may seem lavish, he's paying for them, so that shouldn't matter. When he flies for vacations, he pays airfare for himself and his family. Only the security and secretaries fly for free. Just because President Bush merely flew to Texas, it doesn't mean he didn't spend more on vacations. The Secret Service had to staff his Texas ranch year-round, and Bush flew there every week or two, so the flights to Texas ran up hundred of $millions each year. Bush probably would've flown to nice international vacations if he wasn't so internationally hated. I don't know what planet your from, but welcome to earth.
lives under a bridge maybe? billygoat gruff
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
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Quality Pickup Lines
about the only pick up line that actually worked on me was :
"you're riding with my brother" |
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sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 22351 |
QUOTE: Sylvia Plath Paul Coelho Richard Bach Dr. Seuss... I can't think of a 5th one Dr Seuss is actually an awesome choice - shows humor, imagination and a good moral for each story A 5th one? How about Richard Scarry or the guy who wrote the Curious George books? |