Sexual incompatibility will undermine an otherwise solid relationship. I have heard many men complain that their wives weren't giving it up enough, which usually drives men to find it elsewhere. When their wives find out, they blame their husbands for infidelity, and they certainly are blameworthy, but so are their wives.

I was in an intense relationship with woman for about three years. She was the most sexual woman I have ever known. She has abnormally high testosterone. She has always been horny. She has always loved sex, and she knows great sex from all over variations. She is the most sexually experienced woman I have ever known. She has been with at least thirty men, and I have not judged her for it because what she did before I fell in love with her was none of my business.

She married a man who was much older yet far less experienced. She tried to teach him how to have good sex. He used to ridicule her when she asked him to do something completely normal like cumming on her ****. She even loves facials. She has a *** fetish that she acquired in college when her boyfriends used the withdrawal method.

I always accommodated her sexual fantasies & desires. Her husband used to demean her for them. He though great sex was rolling on top of her and doing her missionary. She wanted rough sex while bent over their bed or at least doggie style. Finally after years of being degraded and rejected and her husband refusing to learn, she grew to loathe having sex with him. When she couldn't avoid him, she'd submit with the hope of it ending quickly. But by then it took him a long time to orgasm, so she'd have to use lubricant. Her last few years with him were sexual misery.

There is no excuse for refusing to learn how to have great sex. Were I to meet a woman who wants to teach me what she expects during sex, I have an obligation to learn sans judgment. I know that sexual incompatibility will destroy an otherwise wonderful relationship.

My advice is open communication sans judgment. Men ought to encourage women to tell them what they like and don't like during sex. Accentuate and perfect what they like and avoid what they don't. That way you'll be much happier.

YES,size does matters. That is depend on other person. if she OK with small, that's mean its fit for her. If someone experience difference sizes, then that person know which size is good for her. I think size is matter for good enjoyment.

Look in the Ocean,There are different size boats and they have different speeds.

There's a lot of factors for a sexless marriage. Could be stress, emotional (which could break down into further categories), could be the wrong moments when one craves it while the other does not and vice versa, genetics (many different factors here), hormones, attraction. I'm sure there's many other possibilities, but to me these are the most common ones I have heard of.

What you guys think is it the size of the boat or motion in the ocean that most women what?!

It's not the size of the boat nor the motion in the ocean, it's whether or not the captain can stay in port long enough for all the passengers to get off.

Some times you have to forgive them but do you really ever forget? If you don't forgive them..it can really bring you relationship down and effect it. If you don't forgive them sometimes it is better to end the relationship.

There's more to life than just sex.
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That's mean sex is not important for happy and healthy marriage.
More explanations please

Dating/relationship and anything along those lines.

I could never ask someone to give up a pet. That would be me asking them to be an irresponsible pet owner, which is not something I'd do.

I know a women love dogs and volunteering for dogs adopting. She bring dogs every weekends for sleepover. her weekend spending with dogs. No time for her husband. She is enjoying her time with dogs, husband spending time doing house choirs. They are in sexless marriage. This lady does not want to have sex.In her life her first priority is her dogs and supporting them. All her friends are dogs friends. In this case, my opinion is first priority should be her husband and family happiness.Its like husband is a another dog for her. I have 2 dogs, I love them.But my first priority is my kids. my thinking is first relationship. Then people should marry animal.

It is easy to start dating and relationship, But very difficult to maintain it.I have no idea. maybe online.

how to start dating and relationship

That's actually not always the case. There some women prefer not to so much engage in sex that because its not that important to them. Now for me im the opposite, not that it is all that important but i do take care of the one im with. At the same time though ot depends how willing there are give themselves. Can bad sex brake a relationship yes. That doesn't me there can't be room for improvement if the other is willing...

How can we keep an healthy relationship

Yea I agree with it too! But maybe spice it up with dressing up n food lol

I am an artist of a few different mediums. Conveying a feeling whether through visual art like my pictures or audio art like music. Feelings are an expression of ones inner self or soul. We label them with adjectives to help describe the indescribable and to add logical explanation to the illogical or intangible.

have you met a man that had the qualities your were looking for ,but there was no attraction?

True Love is always painful, but in the end they will be together. firm determination and love move every hurdle in their path. God help those who help themselves.